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Is expressing your love an everyday thing for you?

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 12:16 PM
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Hi ladies,

Do you express love freely or reserve it for special occasions? Do you tell your loved ones face-to-face or in written messages?

When my DS was younger I put a love note in his lunchbox every single day of the school year. Then when he started the 5th grade he asked me to stop.  Sadly I honored his wishes.

Do/did your children ever get embarrassed by your public displays of affection for them?

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Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 12:16 PM
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Travelagtmom
by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 12:42 PM
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Yes, my one son told me to stop telling him I loved him in public. I told him it was very important for me to say it and hear it back so I asked him to come up with a secret code word and for whatever reason he decided the secret word was "apples". Lol.
He is now 27 and that is still how we sign off :)
When he was in Iraq I sent his letters on apple stationary.
Audreesmommy757
by Diana on Feb. 14, 2012 at 12:44 PM
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I tell my kids everyday how much I love them...;0)
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KenneMaw
by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 1:00 PM

i love showing my DD (who is also in 5th grade) that I love her.  I gave her a few V-day items today but snuck the card in her school binder so she can find it later.   Also, lately, I have tried to be better about showing my friends that I love them too.   Many were surprised by Vday cards :-)  Showing love is somethign that makes me feel good about me, esp on days when I don't feel so loving.

Meltopia529
by Mel on Feb. 14, 2012 at 1:39 PM

 I tell my hubby and our son how much they mean to me daily. I tell my son at least 20 times a day I <3 you. He's only 15 months so he's not embarrassed by me just yet. But when that day comes, I'm going to be so sad.

soontobemommie3
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 1:49 PM
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I express freely! I haven't embarrassed them. Yet. :)
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kschlag
by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 3:43 PM
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I'm sad to admit that I am much better about showing my son that I love him than my husband.  So here's my Valentine's Day resolution - to be a more loving wife.

nyrngrs01
by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:20 PM


Quoting Travelagtmom:

Yes, my one son told me to stop telling him I loved him in public. I told him it was very important for me to say it and hear it back so I asked him to come up with a secret code word and for whatever reason he decided the secret word was "apples". Lol.
He is now 27 and that is still how we sign off :)
When he was in Iraq I sent his letters on apple stationary.

This is so wonderful- I nearly cried! Thanks for sharing!

EDDES
by New Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:30 PM

 Well, I do say i love you everyday to my little one; to my big one not so much everyday because i do not see him everyday, he is 29 yrs. old and my little one is a toddler of five so he gets alot more attention; When I call my first born I always let him know that i love him verbally. baby dust

Army_Mom_2_Boyz
by Tania on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:50 PM

My oldest son does, it makes me sad.

And because my youngest try so hard to be like his brother in every way he is starting to do the same thing :(

Army_Mom_2_Boyz
by Tania on Feb. 14, 2012 at 7:52 PM

I agree that is so sweet!!!

Quoting nyrngrs01:


Quoting Travelagtmom:

Yes, my one son told me to stop telling him I loved him in public. I told him it was very important for me to say it and hear it back so I asked him to come up with a secret code word and for whatever reason he decided the secret word was "apples". Lol.
He is now 27 and that is still how we sign off :)
When he was in Iraq I sent his letters on apple stationary.

This is so wonderful- I nearly cried! Thanks for sharing!


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