Sad..Bummed..Hurt..You name it..that is what i am. *UPDATE*
Today was a crappy day for me!!!!! I am a single Mother to a wonderful almost 16 year old son who for now lives with me but does visit his dad on the weekend and sometimes during the week. When i came home from work tonight my son told me his father was coming over because he had something to tell me and he wanted his dad here. Let me tell you it was a punch in the stomach!!! My son told me tonight he wants to go and live with his dad for a while because he misses being with him. His father was not always in his life when he was young as he did not live here. But when his dad left the military he moved back and fell into a great place in jacob's life. We have shared custody and it is up to us to divide the time so basically he is here most weeks and with his dad most weekends. neither one of us pay child support..So if we were to switch it up and it would not intefere with custody either way. I am at a loss because i do not know what to say..I am sooo sad and have been super upset since about 6. I know he needs his dad but i am not sure i want to disrupt his schedule like that.. so i am at a loss and his dad is happy with whatever i choose to do...Soo these next couple of days will be rough ones.
*** I updated on page 2 ladies!! Thank you for all of your cares and support it means so much to me!!! ****