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his dads girlfriend stole my mother's day gift!!!

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Okay so I know it's a couple of day's pass mother's day and I should really just get over this!!! But it has been eating at me...and honestly I feel like I am over reacting a bit...so I'll tell ya what happened and ya'll let me know if you all think I have a right to be mad or should I just suck it up and move on...

My son (who is 9years old) made me a mother's day card at school...my favorite gift to get are the things my kiddos make me...anyhow my 9yr old made me a mother's day card...the day he made it was on a friday and it just happened to fall on friday that he goes to his father's house...so my son stuffed it in his backpack and just thought he would give it to me sunday...well his dads girlfriend found it in my sons backpack and auttomatically assumed that the card was for her...she told him thank you for "her" mother's day card and what not...my son told her that it was for me HIS MOTHER!!! Well she told him that she was keeping it because he had made it for her...so she has MY mother's day card...

Now I am not upset because I didn't get aything...I am upset because SHE took it!!! I told her I wanted the card MY SON made me...she said that the card was her's and he made it for her...

And she doesn't know why I am so pissed?!? Really?!?

Anyhow...do I have a right to be pissed or am I just over racting and should I just get over it...
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by on May. 15, 2012 at 9:44 PM
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christi34
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:31 PM

See people like you who get pregnant in high school and then finished and then went to college I have a lot of respect for people like that. F*** what the other lady says and I am sure your son is not stupid. Some people are just ignorant, like her.

Quoting jpalmer:

I agree just because someone has a GED doesn't mean they are stupid...it means they care enough to finish school!!! But what I was saying is that I worked my ass off to get my high school diploma...I got pregnant my senior year and it took everything I had and some to get through high school...so it pissed me off a bit because she basically told me my high school diploma was worthless...kwim...

Quoting christi34:

There is nothing wrong with having a GED. Many people chose get those for many reasons. People who have a GED actually have to take a test to get it. Its not that easy to do.



Quoting jpalmer:

I have no clue what is wrong with this chick!!! She even told my son that I was to stupid to get my high school diploma...that the onbly thing I have is my GED...ummm wrong!!! I have my hish school diploma AND I have my RN...smh...she needs a high five to the face with a shovel!!! And so dose his bio dad!!! Grrrr!!!





Quoting terri76:

 UMMMM Girl you have every right to be upset!!!!!!!! I am on your side totally!!!!!! That is just every kind of wrong for her to do that.....that is just so very rude..She should be ashamed of herself for stealing from a 9 year old even after he told her it was for HIS MOTHER not his dad's girlfriend...Why would he make her a mother's day card??? She is a sad person!!!


jpalmer
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:35 PM
His dad's about as useful as tit's on a bull...he cheated on his wife for this *B*!!! She's 19 and full of her self...and he let's who ever pair of legs he's between at the moment control everything he does...I can't wait till he get's tired of her and cheats and moves on to the next...

Oh wait here's the best part...I called today and asked for my card MY son made me...he said he gave it to his real mother...are you effing serious!!! This B has been in my son's life for a total of 5 months, his bio dad has been in his life for a total or 2 years, and I'm the one that isn't real??? Yeah my dh and I have raised MY son...not him...and most deff not her!!!


Quoting Strega:

She sounds like a Nutjob. Have you talked to his Dad?

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jpalmer
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:38 PM
Trust me I am trying to put a stop to it...the legal way isn't working...I'm about to just punch her in the face and see if that will knock some dang sence in her...both of them are about as bright as a damn bottomless well!!!

Quoting mommy_2_be_2010:

Sounds like she wants to be mommy put a stop to it op. My daughters sm tried to get her for mothers day by saying her dad wanted to see her nope he can call my phone and talk to me if he wants to see her because it's MOTHERS DAY WEEKEND i'm keeping MY daughter home with me u aint getting her. Then she asked for my 10x30 pic I had made of my daughter um no if u want it u get one made and pay for it. My daughters dad is also pissed bc I won't send him nudies of myself over the net and has called me a retarded bitch because I refuse to send them I aint married to u take naked pics of ur wife.



I would be nice and have a picture disc made for him but not after he called me a retarded bitch
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jalex
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:38 PM

 She is nuts.  You have every right to be mad. 

jpalmer
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:40 PM
My son is/was an honor roll student...his grades started to slip when his dad had the affair with this skank...it's just rediculous!!!

Quoting christi34:

See people like you who get pregnant in high school and then finished and then went to college I have a lot of respect for people like that. F*** what the other lady says and I am sure your son is not stupid. Some people are just ignorant, like her.

Quoting jpalmer:

I agree just because someone has a GED doesn't mean they are stupid...it means they care enough to finish school!!! But what I was saying is that I worked my ass off to get my high school diploma...I got pregnant my senior year and it took everything I had and some to get through high school...so it pissed me off a bit because she basically told me my high school diploma was worthless...kwim...



Quoting christi34:

There is nothing wrong with having a GED. Many people chose get those for many reasons. People who have a GED actually have to take a test to get it. Its not that easy to do.





Quoting jpalmer:

I have no clue what is wrong with this chick!!! She even told my son that I was to stupid to get my high school diploma...that the onbly thing I have is my GED...ummm wrong!!! I have my hish school diploma AND I have my RN...smh...she needs a high five to the face with a shovel!!! And so dose his bio dad!!! Grrrr!!!







Quoting terri76:

 UMMMM Girl you have every right to be upset!!!!!!!! I am on your side totally!!!!!! That is just every kind of wrong for her to do that.....that is just so very rude..She should be ashamed of herself for stealing from a 9 year old even after he told her it was for HIS MOTHER not his dad's girlfriend...Why would he make her a mother's day card??? She is a sad person!!!


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jpalmer
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:43 PM
Cause he is a little b!tch that let's her hold his balls and spine in her pocket book!!!

Quoting Meltopia529:

 Exactly! Why didn't he set her straight?


Quoting prdadptvmama:

Sounds like dad needs to have his rear end whopped too! He should have been man enough to step up and say that his son made it for YOU His MOTHER!

 

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Cher53
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:43 PM

My God Women! you more then have the right to be furious...I am just floored that this ms thing could do something like this. What Say's x-h? Or doesn't he understand that this is confusion big time for your Son. Oh God I think I would have a fit not kidding this is just dead wrong. I hope your Son is OK...

jpalmer
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:45 PM
Lmao...yeah if the card was made for her the card should read "happy home wrecking whore's day"...rotflmao!!!

Quoting hunterskysmom:

I laughed when I read this



Quoting mysticalmalissa:

Remind her that the card said happy MOTHER'S day, not, "Happy Dad's Girlfriend Day".

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GraceHudson
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:47 PM
bump


jpalmer
by on May. 16, 2012 at 7:50 PM
My poor son came home crying saying that he had a card for me but his dads girlfriend stole it...and when he corrected her his dad yelled at him...I am trying to be the bigger person and just love my kiddo and let him know that it doesn't matter...because he's my son...but honestly I just want to beat the ever loving sh!t out of her stupid skanky a*s!!!

Quoting Cher53:

My God Women! you more then have the right to be furious...I am just floored that this ms thing could do something like this. What Say's x-h? Or doesn't he understand that this is confusion big time for your Son. Oh God I think I would have a fit not kidding this is just dead wrong. I hope your Son is OK...

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