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Next time pay ATTENTION before you JUDGE!!! piog...

Posted by on Jun. 27, 2012 at 5:33 PM
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So yesterday i went grocery shopping...i hate grocery shopping...i decided to take my mom with me because i knew i was going to be getting quite a bit of food...and getting that much and having three boys in tow is just well exhausting...anyhow here i am standing in the check out line with two shopping carts full of food and of course my two oldest are fighting and my youngest is whining for a drink...by this time i just want to rip my hair out of my head...i ended up giving in to the boys and allowing them to have a sprite...so here i am now digging my wallet out of the bottom of my purse (because my wallet insist on playing hide and seek with me EVERYTIME i go to look for it)...i pull out my bank card (which the picture above is not my bank card but it looks just like it) and i am standing there watching the cashier scan through my millions of coupons... And this is when i hear these two gawdy, loud mouth, judgemental woman!!!

First woman:

"Just look at her!!! Using our tax dollars to feed her heatherns!!! And buying soda...ugggg...if she's going to use our tax dollars she should have at least chose somthing healthier!!!"

Woman beside her:

"And she's got a liz taylor purse...i bet she stole it since she's on public assistance...well either that or she's defrauding the government!!! You know that's what all these young mother's do now days!!!"

And this ladies was not my proudest moment but damn it i snapped!!! And honestly i usually don't say anything because honestly i usually don't give a crap...but for some reason this time it just got to me!!! I turned around face as red as a fire engine and steam probably coming out of my ears!!! An ladies i just went off!!!


This is what i said...smh...


"You inconsiderate, judgmental heffers!!! How dare you assume what i am or am not doing!!! And if you are going to be so crass to make such assinine staement's then make sure you know what in the heck you are talking about!!! First off this (i held up my bank card) is NOT a food stamp card...this is my bank card!!! And your effin tax dollars are NOT paying for my, what did you call them "hethans" food!!! My husbands hard earned pay check is what is paying for our food!!! And just an FYI even if i WAS using a food stamp card...it would be none of your damn bussiness!!! I suggest you think about the crap that you spew from your mouth!!!"


Okay...yes i may have over reacted a bit...and there is no shame in needing public assistance...but it just made me so mad that i couldn't stand it!!! How dare they treat people like that...what if i had been on PA...and needed it...it's no ones bussiness but mine!!!

Okay rant over...sorry it's so long ladies...i just needed to get it out!!!
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jpalmer
by Jesse on Jun. 27, 2012 at 5:33 PM

This is what the EBT card looks like here...
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jpalmer
by Jesse on Jun. 27, 2012 at 7:24 PM
Wow...no one is in here tonight...
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our3
by on Jun. 27, 2012 at 7:29 PM

I would have loved to see the looks on the "heffers" face lmao. I'm sorry you had to go thru that but kudos to you for putting those ladies in their place. :)

jpalmer
by Jesse on Jun. 27, 2012 at 7:35 PM
Lmao...yeah my mom got after me for calling grown women heffers...my defence was she called my kids hetherns!!! Thanks for the kuddos...even though i yelled at two older women...smh...

Quoting our3:

I would have loved to see the looks on the "heffers" face lmao. I'm sorry you had to go thru that but kudos to you for putting those ladies in their place. :)

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Drea79
by on Jun. 27, 2012 at 7:40 PM

LMAO!! Good for you ! I cant stand people like that.. they dont realize that people like them are the problem. I've never had  an incident like that happen ,but i do get people who have nothing better to do then stare ( and i dont mean in a gawking way). Sometimes i have to litterally ask them if they have a staring problem or would like to take a picture lol. I try to ignore things like that to the best of my abilities, but really how much can one take sometimes.Dont feel bad it happens to the best of us :)

Delirium003
by on Jun. 27, 2012 at 8:10 PM
Some people are just plain rude and bitchy! Wish I could have been a fly on the wall to see the heffers faces!! Lol
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terri76
by Terriny on Jun. 27, 2012 at 9:00 PM

 He he he he you go girl!! High Five to you!!!  high five I wish i could have seen their rude and bitch faces!!!!!!! I really dislike people like this!!!

mysticalmalissa
by Gold Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 6:43 AM

Sorry but I have to laugh!

Our bank had the same looking card, soooooooo many people complained they changed the design.

Good for you on setting them straight!

SabrinaLC
by Silver Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:24 AM

Good For You!

That was rude of them and they deserved what they got.

jpalmer
by Jesse on Jun. 28, 2012 at 10:45 AM
I wish my bank would change the design...smh... i liked the flag on my card until this...lol

Quoting mysticalmalissa:

Sorry but I have to laugh!

Our bank had the same looking card, soooooooo many people complained they changed the design.

Good for you on setting them straight!

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