Okay I am 22 years old and married, we have two boys one is 4 years old he will be 5 in November and a 9 month old who will 1 in December. Well I am having the hardest time with my oldest he used to be so well mannered, yes ma'am, please, thank you and so on when he was 2 and 3 years old and now he has turned into a mouthy 16 year old. He talks so nasty, and is so rude. He does a lot of whinning and I mean a lot. I have done everything from good charts and tree charts where you get an apple on the tree when he is good. None of it seems to work. I don't like to spank him anymore because he likes to drop to the ground and I don't want him to be scared of us. I take away toys and take the tv.
I do not know what to do anymore. His mouth is terrible, his attitude is terrible, and manners have gone out the window. Any advice!