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My BFF called me fat :(

Posted by on Apr. 6, 2012 at 8:44 AM
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Ok, so Ive been doing Zumba for about two or three months now and Ive really noticed that my stomach has gotten a lot tighter. My bff is a little on the heavy side but has lost some weight doing zumba with me. Well yesterday she texted me and said "hey ive noticed that your tummy is getting bigger again" wth are you kidding me? I said "well I actually have been losing weight so I dont know why you think it looks bigger." (just a little info about my friend, she just found out shes pregnant and has been talking about how she will be putting on the pounds again) so Im wondering if shes just saying that my tummy is getting bigger (when its not) bc shes jealous? I didnt text her for the rest of the day bc she kinda hurt my feelings and so later in the day she texted me saying "you know I would never say that your fat bc Im fat myself" and I said "yeah" and what did she do, she went back and said "so your saying Im fat?" OMG so she turned it around and made it look like I was calling her fat? SMDH 

do I look fat??????????

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kgmmw
by Kimberly-US/Mex on Apr. 8, 2012 at 8:32 PM
Zumba is awesome

Quoting JerseyAirGurl:

You look great. Keep up the great work. Zumba done right =) 

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twobells
by Orfelinda on Apr. 8, 2012 at 9:11 PM

OMG you look great not fat at all.

kgmmw
by Kimberly-US/Mex on Apr. 9, 2012 at 6:59 AM
Thank you

Quoting twobells:

OMG you look great not fat at all.

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momma_814
by Zayra-Mexicana on Apr. 9, 2012 at 8:56 AM
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Damn Kim you look GOOD!!!!! NO you don't look fat. Your friend is just being a bitch. Sorry for the calling your friend that but she is. Don't pay her no mind. Let her talk. Zimba is working for you. Keep up the great work. And you need a new BFF btw. Just saying. Real friends don't hurt eachothers feeling like that.
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MrsDianaB
by Diana-Mexican on Apr. 9, 2012 at 9:57 AM
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You don't look fat at all you look great! I don't know your BFF mabey she's petty mabey it's hormones but I hope you set her straight.
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NADIA-R
by NADIA on Apr. 9, 2012 at 11:14 AM

 I agree with the rest you look very nice and I also think she is jealous.

kgmmw
by Kimberly-US/Mex on Apr. 9, 2012 at 12:19 PM
I talked to her and now she's ignoring me and being childish

Quoting MrsDianaB:

You don't look fat at all you look great! I don't know your BFF mabey she's petty mabey it's hormones but I hope you set her straight.
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karladiego
by Karla on Apr. 9, 2012 at 1:46 PM

Just had to read the first lines to see where it was going.....she is jealous!! You look great!! She's just being petty, catty and plain jealous.

ana326
by Ana-Mexicana on Apr. 9, 2012 at 7:04 PM
She's being a jelous bitch. I'm sorry but your bff has done you dirty in the past she is a toxic friend.
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kgmmw
by Kimberly-US/Mex on Apr. 9, 2012 at 8:41 PM
I know she has and why am I so stupid to keep her as my friend ?

Quoting ana326:

She's being a jelous bitch. I'm sorry but your bff has done you dirty in the past she is a toxic friend.
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