I am looking to hire a nanny a few days a week. I'm paying good, I think and I had a list of requirements. Have to have a driver's license, be bilingual, I'll pay for CPR training, a non smoker etc, etc. This lady jumped all over me, said I was discriminating against her and said Whether or not she smoke is none of my business and I have no right to ask. I told her that I have every right, that all 4 of my children have eczema and allergies and smoking is bad for them. Also I told her I have a nice home and I don't want it to reek of cigarette smoke and I don't want cigarette butts outside either. That smell stays in your hair, clothes, nasty. I said I feel the right to demand a non smoker since I'm the one paying. I told her to see where else she can make $350a week for 3 days and not have a high school diploma. I might have been a little harsh, but I said this after she threatened to report me. To whom? I don't know... Oh and technically, she would only be watching 2 kids, the others go to school. Am I being unreal??