i sometimes think i am going crazy by how my husband and i act. one day i don't think we are going to make it and the next i love him to pieces....i never once put our "color" into it until a good friend of mine said something that made me think bout it.
im not trying to be rude to anyone or start anything, i'm just confused and i apologize ahead of time if my questions are not politically correct.
in the mexican culture is there something to be said about hispanic men and white women?
why do i get glared at in public with him? i didn't do anything to you and you don't know us so why the look?
are you in a relationship like mine?
are all hispanic men a little posessive and controlling over their kids...i say little lightly, there are times i want to smack him regarding his "rules" about our 4 yo daughter.
i'm trying really hard to learn spanish, he doesn't know it, but i need it for my job and i want our kids to be bilingual. i call our daughter mija, my husband says its embaressing and offensive because i'm trying to hard, am i?
lately i've just been feeling really disconnected from him and he keeps telling me it's because we were raised different. everywhere we go, he says people look at us and discriminate, i think he is ready to jump anyone but he says i'm just oblivious and ignorant. does race really have to do with e v e r y t h i n g?
can any of you give me any advice?
thanks in advance