I am happily married to my husband of 16 yrs and have two beautiful children.
I am a business women also and do lots of networking marketing. I come accross men and women and I met this one guy super nice.
He just got out of a bad relationship of three years and he trustworthy. He is a good guy but just has problems which who doesn't.
I thought that he would be honest with me since I go by "Honesty is the best policy." He has a year and a half little son that he adores him.
As a good friend that I am, I was currently going to introduce him to a girl friend of mine. This way he can meet her and possibly just be friends. Forget a little the bad relationship that he had of three years.
I am upset to know right now that he wasn't really honest with me as a friend should be. I am not sure if he afraid of losing my friendship, I would look at him differently or he has some type of feelings for me. He knows that I don't judge at all, I would everything I can to keep him in the right track. The fact that I had to find out by someone else, it hurts.
I found out that he is still married to his son mommy and he never divorced her. The girl that he was with her was him just got fet up because you know ladies. We want to be the one and only and not "vajilla de segunda mesa". She gave him the ultimative of her or me I guess even though he didn't tell me what really happen.
I did send him a text message to call me because I don't want to hook him with my gf until he comes clean. I am planning to listen to what he got to say and not confront him. I will be playing dum and ask him to be straight up. Let's see what happens because things happen for a reason.
He a very good friend of mine or at least he been there for us, my hubby and I. As a friend & person, he is awesome and been there in good and times. Do u think that I should hear him out and give him a 2nd chance? What would you do?
Lives in Florida and has two children