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Would you forgive her and become her loving sister? Update in blue

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 I have a story to tell and then I want to ask a question. Maybe I'll get some honest answers.

 When my 11 yr old was 8 months old we ended up moving in with my father and stepmother. At the time they had my stepsister living there with her children also. My stepsister is crazy....mean crazy.

 As we were living there we found out that Brian (my son) was/is allergic to powdered laundry soap. We bought him dreft and kept his stuff (sheets,clothes,bibs....etc) away from everyone else's. He is also asthmatic so we really don't want to mess around with his allergies. So,Joy (evil stepsister) gets mad at me for some stupid sh!t and instead of talking to me. She starts pulling mean little pranks. She "mistakenly" cut all the sleeves off my hubby's uniforms...etc.

 And one night Brian stays awake ALL night. He wouldn't eat, he wasn't cold he wasn't hot. I changed his bottom like 7 times...thought maybe he's teething;tried motrin. Nothing worked. I sat in a rocking chair and held my crying son all night. At around 7:00a.m. I got up fed my oldest....and went to change my baby,again. His butt was raw and blistered,bleeding. I couldn't believe it...I'd changed him just 2 hours before. He hadn't even been wet. We went ahead and took him to the ER and found out he was having such a bad allergic reaction to something that it gave him a yeast infection!! The doctor gave us a t-shirt from the hospital and a clean pampers...we didn't know at this point what had caused it. As soon as they started the meds and changed his clothes he settled down and fell asleep. The doctor told us to take him home and re-wash his clothes/sheets just in case.

  By now maybe you guessed what happened? My dumb-ass stepsister dumped powdered tide into Brian's dreft. And I'd changed him so many times that I'd managed to put him in something washed with it.We moved out the next day and I will NEVER forgive that bitch for hurting my son!!

  My stepmom says that bygones should be bygones.And I should forgive and forget. I can't. My question is:

Who's wrong? Should I try to forgive crazy bitch or should I tell my stepmom I'm sorry but hell no?!

  (ETA: I am not still FURIOUS at her.I just don't trust her (even after 10 years) and I would rather her not be a part of any of my son's lives. No me cabe en la cabeza como una mujer ADULTA pueda lastimar con tanta maldad a un bebe.) Sorry about the Spanglish.

 Joy called me at work.She was crying-she wants to know WHY I hate her so much!!! She says she HAS to drive through Ms. and she thought her family would be happy to help her save some money(by not making her go to a motel). I had to tell her that I wanted her NOWHERE near my kids and if she couldn't remember why it was probably better that she stayed away. She giggled (GIGGLED) at me "Oh, was harmless fun!" 

 DAMN WITCH!!!!!!!! She's not even remotely sorry.

Thought for the day :

 Women are angels and when someone breaks our wings we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible that way.

by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:08 PM
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by Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 4:00 AM

 We don't need a whole bunch of snakes and spiders...I'd settle for one.Let's Brown Recluse her a$$!! LOL

Quoting NADIA-R:

OMG harmless fun ! Let me put some poisonos snakes and a few spiders on her bed then say Hahahaha its harmless fun biatch, see how she likes it. She is completly mental and her mother knows it and tries to cover it up. Do stay very far away from her.

by Marina-Tex-Mex on Oct. 8, 2012 at 7:46 AM


I would try to forgive her,

but just because I forgave her doesn't mean we suddenly become best friends or friends at all. 

I would still keep her away from my child and not have anything to do with her.

I wouldn't be able to trust her either.

And I sure could never forget what she did.


by Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 7:54 AM
Omg! Well the answer is even more clear now, im so sorry this person is in ur life but nope never part of it thats for sure!
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by Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 7:57 AM
I think I would have beat that bitch up so bad she would have been in a nursing home with a feeding tube up her nose. Because when it comes to my babies soy como una FIERRA! U do not mess with someone's babies u can do whatever u want to me but u best stay away from my kids. Fuck that hoe u did good in telling her to stay away from ur kids don't even answer her calls just forget that bitch ever existed and be happy she isn't ur blood sister.
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by Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:49 AM


by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:57 AM

cut ties. NOW.

by Karina-D.R. on Oct. 8, 2012 at 12:28 PM

anybody thatwould Harm my kids on purpose have no businness being around my family.  if that wouldve been me the outcome would've been a little different. 

by Reyna on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:40 PM
No, I would never forgive her.
She is evil and there is no cure for evil.
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by Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 1:52 AM

 I walked away.I was afraid of WHAT I would DO to her if we stayed there.

 I've never understood her "REASONING"....What could have possibly made her attack an 8 month old? Maybe she is just a coward,she attacks those that CAN'T defend themselves?! The reason she got so mad at me and started this $hit is because I told her to stop letting her  "man" (any guy that beats a baby is NOT a man imho) beat her 3 yr old son. I defend HER child so,she hurts mine...makes sense,right?! NOT

Quoting karma729:

anybody thatwould Harm my kids on purpose have no businness being around my family.  if that wouldve been me the outcome would've been a little different. 

by Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 4:49 AM


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