I went to visit my dad last week and spent six days over there. I have been going for about ten months back and fourth helping my family. I am the only one of my parents nine kids that moved away. Every time I go home I feel like I need to do my part and help out as much as possible. This is the problem I feel like all I do is clean and clean. I don't spend quality time with anyone. In fact no one seems to even want to spend time with me just tell me what I need to do. I cleaned my dad's yard for two days. I mean moving mesquite, trimming trees, moving brush to the corner and cleaning house. I buy groceries and buy food for everyone to eat. I had a bad accident this last time. I feel backwards over a huge rock my dad had around a tree and the tree branch cut my back. I went inside to see my back and let everyone know what happened and everyone ignored me. Even my dad did not get up to help me. I always felt bad that I was not there to help out with my mother and now with my dad. Now I think everyone is taking advantage of me and using this for me to fork over money and use me to clean. What do you ladies think? My sister and my two nieces live in my parents home. I feel they should be responsible for my dad and his home. I don't mind helping out, but when it is going to take all my vacation time. Do you think I should spend my vacation time helping take care of my dad?