Have you ladies heard of positive affirmation? some people call it different things but they all do pretty much the same thing.
writing down the things you want like a brand new car then meditating on it until you get it. some I have heard do it very often and always get what they want.
I know I have done it with out knowing of this I used to do it when I was young I would want certain kind of shoes and I would picture them in my mind then a few days later my mom would show up with the same shoes for me.
Have you done it before?