How do you all decide where to spend the holidays? Is it a big fight as to where to go for Thanksgiving or Christmas? We have to stay home cause of my job, but last year I got to go home. My DH does not really care to spend it with his family, but two years ago we had Thanksgiving in two different places. His brother was in town from D.C. and paid for a hotel for us to stay in for three days. It was here in town, but I did not care to spend Thanksgiving in a hotel. It was a nice golf resort and had lots to do I just did not feel like going and then driving all the way to my job at 3am. He went with the baby and I stayed with my older son. My two other kids went home to spend it with my parents. I wanted all my family together, but did not feel like arguing or keeping him from his brother. Or do you all try to spend a little time with everyone?