So my mother in law still thinks her son is 18 years old and thinks she knows best. She is drivin us all crazy. My husband's 10 year old daughter is half black and half white. My husband is white. His daughter has tight curly afro hair. It looks cute its blond and matches her face. Well my suegra said it was to hard to get the nappy hair in the back brushed out and took her to her hair dresser. She got her a Japanese hair straightener to make her hair straight. It looked straight and cute for 3 days. Now it looks that straight dry straw! esta bien seco Plus in the back it isn't straight it has broken off in places so it looks like it was cut with bush clippers. It may not have been very stylish before, but now it just looks so bad. I want a good relationship with her. Do you think it is my place to tell her that her grand daughters hair looks bad. my SD wants to have straight hair even if it looks bad, but even walking outside with her I can see other people staring at her head. Do you think I should tell her no move Japanese straightening. The top near her roots are now curling and the bottom is straight.