How is your miscarriage going to affect other things?
I mean, for example, I am not going to tell other people that I am pregnant so early next time. If I miscarry again, I will tell them it happened. But I am going to wait until I have gone to my 10 week appointment and have a ultrasound and see that the baby is healthy with a heartbeat and then I will announce it.
I am not going to tell my son that I am pregnant. I didn't this last time and I am glad I didn't. He is too young to understand the loss of a baby and I don't want to confuse him. I will tell him before I announce it to friends and family, after my ultrasound.
Is losing a baby going to change something that you do in the future if you have another baby or not?
Oh yeah I also will send a card to friends and family going through miscarriages. We got a few and it was so nice to know that others were thinking about us and sharing a little part of their story so you know that they truly care and have been through it. I think it is easier to send a card and condolences than to act like it didn't happen and not talk about it with the person going through it. I will recognize their loss and let them know I am thinking about them.