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Can things really get this worst?

Posted by on Feb. 12, 2012 at 10:27 AM
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Last night I did a self breast exam and I felt a lump. I go ask my husband to feel to see if he felt it to (which he did). Than he say "It could be nothing maybe you bumped up again something. I rub on them all the time and you are fine". Now I have an attitude I say "When I told you I felt something wrong when I was pregnant you told me it was nothing and I never been pregnant things were fine, 2 days later I started bleeding and 3 days after that I had a miscarriage so your diagnosis on my ailments aren't what we should really be going on".

I really have no clue what he says after that cause now I'm angry and crying. I'm thinking can things really get this worst. In the last 3 months I've had a miscarriage, the flu and now I feel a lump. WTF did I do to have to have these types of experiences. He hugged me, held me told me whatever happend we would get through things. Once I calmed down he says I could be jumping to conclusions. I felt the need to remind him my grandmother had breast cancer twice. I have no clue what I'm supposed to do. Yeah the obvious is calling the doctor. Am I supposed to call my primary doctor a specialist?  

I know I need to calm down and not jump to conclusions but my optimism left me once I had the miscarriage.

by on Feb. 12, 2012 at 10:27 AM
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ashtie
by Ashten on Feb. 12, 2012 at 12:16 PM
I am so sorry, I pray it is nothing, and your health improves
adonaghy
by on Feb. 12, 2012 at 1:40 PM
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1. I'm sorry your going through alot but don't push hubby away he is trying to help and make you feel better and remain calm.
2. I think you should call your OBGYN as they have been the ones to always do my breast exam and are the ones who usually schedule mammograms I think.
3. Just take a deep breath I know things seem horrible but try to stay positive. Because if the lump is anything god forbid you have to have a positive outlook on life to get through tough stuff like that.

Good luck **hugs**
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