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I want things to be different

Posted by on Apr. 30, 2012 at 7:19 PM
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I am turning 21 on Wednesday. This means I can go out and grab a drink, right? I can't help feeling like this is not the way things are supposed to be right now. I am supposed to be 4 months pregnant right now, and I am not supposed to be drinking alcohol. When I had my mc, a lot of people tried to cheer me up by saying, "At least you can go out drinking on your birthday now!" As if I would rather be drinking than carrying my child. Things are supposed to be so, so different right now. I want to enjoy my birthday, because I have had a hard time enjoying it for the past few years (for a variety of reasons), and this is the last birthday that is actually supposed to be exciting.

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shelly69
by on Apr. 30, 2012 at 7:26 PM

I am sorry :(

tinyfootprint
by on Apr. 30, 2012 at 7:33 PM
Sorry
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Mom2be360
by on Apr. 30, 2012 at 8:45 PM
Sorry.
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cali_angel_girl
by Amy on May. 1, 2012 at 1:06 AM

((hugs)) i'm sorry hun.

newmom2be08
by Sarah on May. 1, 2012 at 9:30 AM

I'm sorry.  The people that say things like that have no idea what it's like to experience a miscarriage.  None.  Happy birthday tomorrow! 

happy birthday

Hugs!

ragitty
by on May. 1, 2012 at 12:01 PM

thanks

Quoting newmom2be08:

I'm sorry.  The people that say things like that have no idea what it's like to experience a miscarriage.  None.  Happy birthday tomorrow! 

happy birthday

Hugs!


Ashleysnicholas
by Ashley on May. 2, 2012 at 12:01 PM

I am sorry too. That was a very insensitive comment. I hope you have a good birthday. I am sorry for your loss.

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