I have been a little upset and thought i would get this off my chest....Mother's day was a couple days ago and i love my mom to death but she just irritated me. I had mentioned the fact that i was making an appt. in Albany to see a fertility doctor, after two miscarriages in 4 months i thought we should get checked. Now she says wait a couple years and then try! i told you this is not the time. NOT THE TIME?! coming from someone who has never lost a child before. It was heartbreaking. No i am not married yes i am young but who the hell cares. Let me rip two children away from you and see how you feel? i just dont know why she would say that. She has never been in the situation and it wasnt like she was nice or compassionate about it. She is trying to help but a little support wouldnt kill her. After my first miscarriage i remember how excited i was when i became pregnant again...all she said was ok, i hope everything goes ok call me later. ugh. If and when i do get pregnant again she wont know until that baby is half way out!!! thanks for listening to me vent. just had to get it out!