not sure whats going on

[angel143909]

its been alittle over 3 weeks seen i went to the drs and they told me my baby no longer had a heart beat i was almost 14 weeks and im still not having any bleeding or cramping and its making me crazy not sure whats going on has anyone else went through this?????? i lost a few babys before and started bleeding or cramping right away and nothing is happing this time and its really hurting me the waiting im not getting any sleep and i dont want to go any where this is all really confusing for me and it makes it worse cause i still feel pregnant

[LilysMommy813]

I'm so sorry, I found out at 14 w 2 d that my baby no longer had a heartbeat on April 6th. I chose to have a d&c because I felt emotionally I could not continue and wait for it to happen on its own knowing my baby was gone. It's so hard losing a child, it takes apart of you. Im assuming you wanted to avoid a d&c and that is why your waiting, maybe you can ask your doctor if you can have cytotec, it's a pill to induce contractions so you can continue on your own and find some closure. You are a strong woman, I'm sorry for your loss, I hope you start to heal soon (((hugs)))