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I think I'm ready

Posted by on Jun. 11, 2012 at 9:48 PM
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So it's been 4 months since I had my miscarried, and I think I'm ready to try again. The only thing stopping me is the fact I have no health insurance. I would have to wait until open enrollment at my job which takes place in November. Or if my hubby to be and I get married so I can take advantage of the life changing event which will let me choice health coverage. I just dont know what to do. We really want another child but we want a healthy child. I guess I just have to wait a little longer before we try again.

When did you know you were ready to try again?


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MamaRamma
by on Jun. 11, 2012 at 10:45 PM

 We lost our baby 12 days ago and I will try as soon as I can. It's hard, but I would like a baby in 2013 if possible..... I don't want my kids to be too far apart.... so, evem though it's scary we will/are trying now, asap

TiphaniMommy
by on Jun. 11, 2012 at 10:51 PM

I didn't want my kids too far apart but my daughter is 5 going on 6 in December. I guess it will be okay if their 6 years apart. It less this way while my daughter is in school the baby can have my complete attention and then when she's home I can give her most of my attention.

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 We lost our baby 12 days ago and I will try as soon as I can. It's hard, but I would like a baby in 2013 if possible..... I don't want my kids to be too far apart.... so, evem though it's scary we will/are trying now, asap



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MamaRamma
by on Jun. 11, 2012 at 10:54 PM
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 true! Mine are 4 and 5 and they have each other...the soon to be baby(keeping an open mind here! hehe) will be younger, but if it's a girl, the boys won't want to play with her as much anyhow...I need a shopping buddy! I'm glad you are ready and hope it all works out well this time around....I say marry that man now! Have a party later! (We got married in Dec so I could get onto his health plan and had our  "wedding" the following July. Most of our family didn't even know:)

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tinyfootprint
by on Jun. 11, 2012 at 10:58 PM
I was scare to want to try again at first...it took me about a month and a half to agree to try again this coming july...I just don't feel complete
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newmom2be08
by Sarah on Jun. 12, 2012 at 3:17 PM

Good luck when you resume TTC again! 

Ladybugmama86
by Silver Member on Jun. 13, 2012 at 10:30 AM

 I lost my baby in January and I would have tried that day if I could have. We had wanted to wait a little while, but we got pregnant in April. Which means another January baby.

MommaBoop922
by on Jun. 13, 2012 at 12:00 PM

I had to wait three months after my 2nd loss because I was given a methotrexate shot which actually helped me prepare mentally for the idea of TTC again.  After the three months we decided just to leave it all in Gods hands and I got pregnant and had my little girl in September 2010 which was one year after my loss :)  When you are ready you know and things tend to work out the way they need to.  Good Luck to you! 

TiphaniMommy
by on Jun. 13, 2012 at 9:17 PM
Thanks ladies. This is a tough decision and I want to make sure i'm making the right one.
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cindy82
by on Jun. 13, 2012 at 10:24 PM
Mine r 6 years apart. And I'm hoping to have one more soon because the next two would be 6 years apart also. I wish there wasn't so much time in between but that's what god gave us. I miss my 5 babies dearly. We always tried again as soon as we could. Good luck to you.
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mr.scariesmommy
by on Jun. 13, 2012 at 11:34 PM
We lost our son last month and we are trying now we just feel like there is a hole in our life and a baby is what is missing. I've told my df that we should just go get married and we will have a bigger ceramony later. I'd say if u both r committed to each other then just go do it. And ttc as soon as u feel that u r ready. I hope u get ur rainbow baby soon.
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