My husband gave me hope.
As some of you know, I lost my angel just over a week ago. I was 31 weeks. My husband has been amazing thru the whole thing. I call him "superman", cuz he won't let me see him cry or break down. He feels he needs to be strong for me. The other night, before we went to bed, I had what I call "downtime". I got up and left the room and sat and cried in the LR. He came out of the room to console me. As hard as I was crying, he still never let himself break down in front of me. As he was rubbing my back and consoling me, he said "Honey, In time, if you feel it is right, we can try and have another baby'. At that moment, I felt some hope, before my husband kept saying he didn't want anymore children. For some reason that made me feel like I had failed him and that he had given up on me. But to hear him say we can try again someday, melted all my fears. I told him "I thought you had given up on me", he said...."I never did". I know it seems petty to some people, but to me, his wonderful words truly showed me, he is "Superman".