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Posted by on Jun. 18, 2012 at 12:06 PM
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I just went thru my first miscarriage and I don't know what to do and what not to do ? Sorry for the details but I have stopped the heavy bleeding ! Now what ? Im still scared this was my first time being pregnant ! And I lost my baby! ( tears) however at the ER they said I passed all the tissue left so no D&c was nessesary but should I check with other doctors just Incase ? I don't want any infections ! Somebody help me plz !
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newmom2be08
by Sarah on Jun. 18, 2012 at 12:46 PM

I would follow up with your OB/GYN or family doctor just to make sure the miscarriage is complete.  They may test your HCG levels to make sure they are going down.  I'm sorry for your loss.  HUGS!

MamaRamma
by Bronze Member on Jun. 18, 2012 at 1:03 PM

 Hi...HUGS! Sorry you are going through all this. I have 2 other children, but this was my first loss. I found out at my 8-9 week US that the baby passed....so I took the RX offered and thought that would be it....unfortunately I started bleeding again 2 weeks later and went in and found out I hadn't passed the sac or anything else, only clots...so I had to do a D & C Friday afternoon. It's scary and no fun. Know you aren't alone.....I suggest following up with your OB. Hope you feel better soon!

Kennadismom
by Member on Jun. 18, 2012 at 5:33 PM
I'm going through my first MC right now as I'm sitting here. I was 5 weeks 4 days when the bleeding started 5 weeks 5 days when I actually passed the sac. I'm still having some clotting and am following up tomorrow with my ob. He said on the phone I probably won't need a d&c but wants me to come in to make sure. Sorry you're going through this too.....
mommyofnoah208
by Melissa on Jun. 18, 2012 at 6:33 PM

 So sorry for your loss :( I agree. I would do a follow up with your Dr

godlyluv
by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:19 AM
Hi thank you so much! your advice is is very useful I have no idea what the sac looks like so maybe I should go to get checked again .


Quoting sosad23:

HI im so sorry for what youre going through. I am in a similar situation.I miscarried at almost 7 weeks.I passed alot of blood clots and also the gestational sac. My doctor said I should be fine.I dont know how far along you were but I think it would be a good idea to see your regular doctor just to be on the safe side.Hope this helps and I hope you feel better soon.


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godlyluv
by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:20 AM
Hi yes thank you and my hcg went down to 10 last time I was in the ER .... That was two days ago


Quoting newmom2be08:

I would follow up with your OB/GYN or family doctor just to make sure the miscarriage is complete.  They may test your HCG levels to make sure they are going down.  I'm sorry for your loss.  HUGS!


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godlyluv
by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:23 AM
Omg I'm so nervous I don't know what to do. ! But thank you so much for your advice


Quoting MamaRamma:

 Hi...HUGS! Sorry you are going through all this. I have 2 other children, but this was my first loss. I found out at my 8-9 week US that the baby passed....so I took the RX offered and thought that would be it....unfortunately I started bleeding again 2 weeks later and went in and found out I hadn't passed the sac or anything else, only clots...so I had to do a D & C Friday afternoon. It's scary and no fun. Know you aren't alone.....I suggest following up with your OB. Hope you feel better soon!


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godlyluv
by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:25 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss also ( tear) its helpful to have others to talk to ! Thank you so much !


Quoting Kennadismom:

I'm going through my first MC right now as I'm sitting here. I was 5 weeks 4 days when the bleeding started 5 weeks 5 days when I actually passed the sac. I'm still having some clotting and am following up tomorrow with my ob. He said on the phone I probably won't need a d&c but wants me to come in to make sure. Sorry you're going through this too.....

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godlyluv
by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:27 AM
Thank you and I will do so


Quoting mommyofnoah208:

 So sorry for your loss :( I agree. I would do a follow up with your Dr


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wife-4-life
by Shannon on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:42 AM
I am so sorry you are having to go thru this. You are in my prayers! This is a GREAT group for support & advice. My first preg was a mc at 6 wks and my 4th preg was a mc at 7 wks. My 2nd & 3rd pregs resulted in beautiful healthy girls. I passed both my mc's naturally without any medical intervention, I'm greatly for at least that much. I am currently preg again and am 6 wks and completely nervous.
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