Howdy again Ladies...
I had a D & C late Friday afternoon...I just seem to feel crampy and very very sore and sleepy. Saturday I felt pretty good most of the day and yesterday I felt worse and this evening I'm SO sore and crampy...I feel like I've totally overdone it. I didn't even slow down afterwards and now I'm thinking that was not so good.....how did you feel afterwards if you've been through this? (ps...so done with this! I want to feel normal...we found out 19 days ago our baby died, it feels like yesterday and just now having the d & c... sigh)
thanks for listening....I feel like I'm a stuck record...
also, having to take percocet at night for pain control..... poo
You should have took it easy the first couple days. After my D&C I rested for like the next 2-3 days. I agree with you, you may have "thought" you were feeling ok, because of the meds during procedure, but now you feel the cramping etc. I suggest you rest a few days. Get yourself healthy for your rainbow.
Quoting Jodilegan:
You should have took it easy the first couple days. After my D&C I rested for like the next 2-3 days. I agree with you, you may have "thought" you were feeling ok, because of the meds during procedure, but now you feel the cramping etc. I suggest you rest a few days. Get yourself healthy for your rainbow.
thanks....it's hard to rest. I want to. REALLY want to, but my job and kids and even my family members seem to think all is well and it's hard to say otherwise. I might have to take off tomorrow if these cramps continue through the night. I think this sort of loss is so overlooked. I wish we could all stand up and shout, THIS HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. IT'S HAPPENING TO ME AND I'M NOT ALONE! Sigh...It's like people think you just get over it like a 12 hour flu or something. How are you feeling today?
Quoting angel143909:
i just had a d&c thursday and i still feel sore and have some pains in my stomach ive just been laying around and relaxing ive just been having a hard time sleeping. i hope you feel better and get some rest
ya, the sleeping is awful! The first night I think I was doped up still, but since then I have tossed so much. Can't get comfortable...I just feel sore like my abs and back and thighs were on workout mode for hours...add in some nasty cramping....and the exhaustion.......... I hope you feel better soon! I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs.... like I told my husband...people either don't know about this whole ordeal or don't understand that you can't get over it....it's something you learn to live with and deal. I will forever feel like I have 3 children, one in heaven......I haven't told anyone that even my husband because I think he's feel weird saying it out loud to someone.... I also named the baby, Cameron Leigh....that was no matter boy or girl it would work. I sort of feel silly for that, but I can't figure out why. Again, hugs and thank you for your support. These little scraps here and there make it possible to stay sane and pull through in the "real" world.
Quoting Lovemusic0811:
I dont really remember being sore if I was it was not a lot..... I had one over two yrs ago and still feel a lil sad whenever I think about it
hugs.....
yeah its really hard to go through im still sore i went to the drs today and they are going to check and make sure nothing got lefted up there or if im getting an infection cause im still having pain im hoping everything is ok cause i dont want to go thru that surgrey again. thats a cute name you picked for your baby we thought we were having a girl and we were going to name her aubrey .hope you start feeling better too hugs
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on Jun. 18, 2012 at 11:08 PM