I lost one when i was almost 5 months along and two more before they even had a chance to really get off on a good start, my fiance and I are trying again and hopeful with get pregnant soon, but it didn't come easy in anyway, we had our last loss a year ago on my birthday, so i understand how loss can suck. I can tell you it will takes days, or weeks or years buut I can't tell you what will need to happen for you to feel ready, I can only tell you to listen to you heart and let it guide you and you loved ones into trying to bring another life in the world when your ready. best of luck and warm wishes for you in the future
I am sorry for your loss.
HUGS! I am so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately all of us here have had a loss or more than 1. Just reach out and feel however you do. There is no right or wrong way to feel.
So sorry for your loss
I coped by talking to my angel. I still do that. :-)
I've also done things that honor my baby. Many women find ways to memorialize or celebrate their babies.
And, as for trying again: everyone is different. My DH and I decided not to actively try again immediately, but not to prevent pregnancy, either. We were lucky: we conceived again quickly and had a successful pregnancy.
I promise that it gets better. But give yourself time. You just lost a precious baby--a very important person in your family. Of course, that will hurt and it will take time to heal.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
so sorry :(
I'm so sorry for your loss - I came to this group when I MC @ 6 weeks (I knew I was pg for 2 weeks). You need to mourn your loss, you need t o cry. I went through so many stages in so little time I thought I was losing my mind. Its helps coming on here to talk, and read about others who have been there.
You try again when your ready - physically, emotionally and mentally. Everyone grieves differently.
We started trying again after our next cycle.
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