Ive recently experienced a miscarriage, i was 14 weeks along and my water broke at 3:30 in the morning, i didnt think anything of it just thought i had peed myself, well a few hours later i talked to my mom and she said i should go get checked out to be safe, well my husband took me to the ER, they did an ultrasound and we got to hear the babys heart beat for the first time and my husband got to see the baby, when i had asked to see the lady refused to show me.Few minutes later the doc comes in and says im in the process of miscarring and that i can go home now and pass the baby in toliet, i was heart broken. Well 2 days later i called my obgyn for to make a follow up appt she was pissed that they had sent me home so she directed me to go back to the same ER i had gone to, well i went back at 9;30a and they took me in the room i had been puking all morning and was in a serious amount of pain they did another ultrasound and let me sit in the room for hours before they came back in with the results, nothing to help me with the vomitting or pain at all not even crackers, Well they said that it looked like the baby had passed and gave me some antibiotics and sent me on my merry way, well the pain had started to spead from the abnormal and lower back to my neck/shoulders and super bad migraine and i couldnt move or breathe, so my mom and husband took me to the other hostipals ER where they took blood work, ultrasound, and catscan and then they ended up having to transfer me to Vegas's hostipal they had thought that i had meningitis, well when i got up to vegas's hostipal they did more testes and such and found that the placenta was still inside and it was badly infected and was starting to spead into my kidneys well they took me in for emerency surgey, since the surgey ive become anemic and retain water really bad, for almost 2 weeks i had to sleep in a chair in order to breathe. it was a horrible sitution to have to go though, and no body seems to even care. They all say they cant do anything unless ur 20 weeks along or have permentant damage or dead, but isnt my child being dead considered but apparently it doesnt matter. So now im living with the pain of losing my child and everyday it hurts a lil bit more and no one understands.