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im trying to be strong

Posted by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 11:03 PM
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i started having my miscarriage at work last week now every time i go to work i get the urge to cry im trying to be happy but  cant help but see how the other pregnant woman get special treatment like sitting when need not lifting heavy things and they just act like im not still hurting they sent me right back to working me like a dog while the pregnant 2 women sit back and enjoy there attention im so mad and i feel bad for feeling this way at the same time

Posted by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 11:03 PM
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MrsBarnhill
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 11:06 PM

it'll get to you for awhile still, how far along were you? im surpised they let you go back to work already.  Its up to you if u want to cry while ur at work or if u wanna try and be strong, no one can take that from you its ur way of grieving and you deserve to.

pinkglitter1
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 11:09 PM

thanks i was 7 weeks

Quoting MrsBarnhill:

it'll get to you for awhile still, how far along were you? im surpised they let you go back to work already.  Its up to you if u want to cry while ur at work or if u wanna try and be strong, no one can take that from you its ur way of grieving and you deserve to.


maddynrysmama
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 11:12 PM
its completely normal hun i had a miscarriage on aug 15th 2011 and my sister was also pregnant we were 2 weeks apart she was ahead by 2 weeks and shes 3 yrs younger then me and not married when i lost my baby i felt really bad i pretty much hated her becuz she was still pregnant and happy but i lost my baby i couldnt help but to be hurt and she was always talking about movement and ultrasounds it killed me after she hit her 6 month i was finally over it but i couldnt help but to be upset its completely normal dont stress urself
pinkglitter1
by on Jun. 24, 2012 at 11:15 PM

i havent cried about it in 2days now i cant help it the tears are just flowing i swear i cant catch a break

mommyofnoah208
by Melissa on Jun. 25, 2012 at 1:10 AM
I'm so sorry. It is so hard to be around other pregnant women and know that should be you. Thinking of you and hoping its gets easierbfor you soon
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pinkglitter1
by on Jun. 25, 2012 at 1:17 AM

thank you so much

Quoting mommyofnoah208:

I'm so sorry. It is so hard to be around other pregnant women and know that should be you. Thinking of you and hoping its gets easierbfor you soon


busyizzybsmom
by Betsy on Jun. 25, 2012 at 1:18 PM
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I'm sorry. Being around other pregnant women is hard enough without them getting special treatment while your pain is ignored. :( Hugs!

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