Miscarriage 06/24 still 06/25
I was 9 weeks 1 day
Have son 22 months
25 years old
Active 3-4 days a week
Eat well with a side of junk food here n there not perfect.
I lost my baby. I am sad and want to talk with others who have been here.
Yesterday afternoon I went pee ans looked down my underwear looked as though I had my period. Went to ER they ran hormon levels ( to low) and I lost the baby they just sent me home to deal with it.
I have apt for wed more blood work and to go from there.
Yesterday evening I was filling up my pads with blood and went to washroom when it felt like it was gushing out blood... I heard the bloop and new it was the bAbY I looked in toilet and it was size if a. Cucumber slice sideways. I was only 9weeks 1 day along.
I am still cramping and bleeding with clots. What happens now is bigger clots coming? The placenta? Or is it just coming in small bits I have no idea. I skipped work today can't face everyone they all know I was expecting gossip gets around.
On top of the my son 22months had to stay home from daycare has fever HAVE to talk him to walkin in.... Think it's ear infection :( daddy works from home so he can help if I can't handle it. But Austin my son is sick wants his mama.
I know I Need rest n I am cramping bleeding possible still misscaraige going on with plasentA? Not sure really. Is this ok for me to be pushing myself? I feel so sad n stressed like I don't even have time to grieve.
I had IUD out and got prego right away....anyone else wonder if it might have been from IUD maybe should have waited longer after IUD to not use protection.
Tell me ur story's and anything u might find helpful.
Here's what I am finding helpful...
1- heat pad
2- super thick pads
3- what my best friend told me when she found out I lost baby ( ash something was wrong with the baby that's why it didn't make it.... Would u have wanted a child that had something wrong with it? Not that anything is wrong with people with different abilities but something just was not right. Nothing anyone did.
Thanks to anyone who posts back
Sorry for everyone who finds themselves in groups like this.... Never thought it would happen to ppl like us.