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my sister's baby

Posted by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 2:10 AM
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I just got back home from visiting my sister in Austin Texas. My nephew, Cade Joseph, arrived June 29th. I was nervous about meeting the baby. I had a M/C in APRIL and I should be 5 months. It was my 5th M/C, the 2nd in 2 years....and still no baby. I am heart broken and i was afraid I'd break down. My sister isn't sensative about my lose, feels I don't need another since my DD is 17 and DS is 14. Doesn't realize I have been trying for 12 years. She got pregnant with each of hers first month she tried and she never had one M/C so I don't expect her to understand. Anyway before I left...I left her with a baby that cried alot...well unless you held him. See aunt Dee Dee...never put him down the whole time she was there...so I spoiled him, now he wants to be held all the time. :-)
Posted by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 2:10 AM
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GoldenLinds
by Silver Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 2:38 AM
Hugs! Spoil him all you can!
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echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Jul. 28, 2012 at 7:47 AM
Agree :-)

Quoting GoldenLinds:

Hugs! Spoil him all you can!
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Mamasita7176
by Susan on Jul. 28, 2012 at 10:08 AM
;)
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Angela4boys
by Angela on Jul. 28, 2012 at 10:33 AM

Hahaha...my babies never cry, cause like you say, you just gotta hold em!!!  They grow so fast, who wants to miss out on that cuddling, it's the best cuddling ever!

jhslove
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 10:36 AM

I'm so sorry. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage, and at the time I was team-teaching  with a friend who got pregnant at the same time I did. We would have been due within a few days of each other, and it was very hard to see her announce her pregnancy to the class, start to show, etc. Fortunately, I did get pregnant again within a few months and now I have a beautiful, healthy daughter, but it was still hard.

I'm sorry your sister isn't more sensitive. I bet your new nephew loved you holding him!

MommaBoop922
by Group Mod- Tara on Jul. 29, 2012 at 9:40 PM

Im sorry for your losses but Im glad you found some happiness in holding your little nephew! Spoiling LOs with love is the best kind of spoiling :)  ((HUGS))

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