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I think we are going to begin to TTC.

Posted by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 7:49 AM
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And just making the decision is a bit nerve wracking.  In all honesty, I'm supposed to be waiting until June, when we would know that my valley fever is in remission or not.  I went off treatment 2 months ago though (on my own), and the symptoms have not returned...in fact, I don't think I've coughed once since the end of last June. The reality of it though, is that even if the VF is confirmed to be in remission, pregnancy can make it flare back up as it saps the immune system...so, I've come to realize that it's something that I will always have to deal with.

Anyways, I'm not getting younger, that's for sure.  And I have some history of early menopause in my family.  So last night, I ordered OPKs....I may end up chickening out before O time though, LOL!  It's happened before, haha.  But, I'm ramping myself up.  I know how I am, and I won't be "ready" until I'm already pregnant.  I've been coming up with every reason not to yet, and my husband keeps reminding me that we will just make everything work, like we always do. 


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LilysMommy813
by Heather on Oct. 7, 2012 at 8:59 AM
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Good Luck!!! FX for you
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jessica11r
by Bronze Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:07 AM
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Good luck!! I hope you get a sticky bean soon and have a happy and healthy none months!
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jessica11r
by Bronze Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:07 AM
Nine not none. I'm on my phone, sorry!
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iSMILEheCRIES
by Platinum Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:15 AM
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Good luck and I like your husbands mentality!
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karla85
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:16 AM
I know how you feel. My first thought with this pregnancy was "shit". Once an ectopic was ruled out I thought to myself: now let's hope I can keep this baby inside long enough for it to be born. Every cramp, twitch, sudden movement make me so nervous. I've been getting sonograms at work just to make sure lil' peanut is moving. I guess I won't feel calm until he is born.
We are here for you, let's pray that your VF is gone forever and the doctors are wrong. My doctor told me my probabilities of getting pregnant with one bad tube left were ZERO, so yeah I proved him wrong lol.
Good luck and God bless you Angela :)
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Angela4boys
by Angela on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:18 AM
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Quoting karla85:

I know how you feel. My first thought with this pregnancy was "shit". Once an ectopic was ruled out I thought to myself: now let's hope I can keep this baby inside long enough for it to be born. Every cramp, twitch, sudden movement make me so nervous. I've been getting sonograms at work just to make sure lil' peanut is moving. I guess I won't feel calm until he is born.
We are here for you, let's pray that your VF is gone forever and the doctors are wrong. My doctor told me my probabilities of getting pregnant with one bad tube left were ZERO, so yeah I proved him wrong lol.
Good luck and God bless you Angela :)

Thanks Karla :)  I'm going to be a wreck I'm sure...and I will be ordering a doppler for sure, haha! 

mommyofnoah208
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 12:40 PM
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Good luck!! Will be thinking of you! Hope everything goes perfect..keep us posted.
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iSMILEheCRIES
by Platinum Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 1:09 PM
Because you had a second trimester loss, there is a company that loans them for free. I can't remember the name-ask Ladybugmama I think she told me about it

Quoting Angela4boys:


Quoting karla85:

I know how you feel. My first thought with this pregnancy was "shit". Once an ectopic was ruled out I thought to myself: now let's hope I can keep this baby inside long enough for it to be born. Every cramp, twitch, sudden movement make me so nervous. I've been getting sonograms at work just to make sure lil' peanut is moving. I guess I won't feel calm until he is born.

We are here for you, let's pray that your VF is gone forever and the doctors are wrong. My doctor told me my probabilities of getting pregnant with one bad tube left were ZERO, so yeah I proved him wrong lol.

Good luck and God bless you Angela :)

Thanks Karla :)  I'm going to be a wreck I'm sure...and I will be ordering a doppler for sure, haha! 

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blessedmommie07
by Desiree on Oct. 7, 2012 at 1:54 PM
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Good luck TTC! Sending lots of baby stick dust your way baby dust

echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Oct. 7, 2012 at 1:57 PM
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Good luck
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