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Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support
How are you feeling today? How can we support you?
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by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 7:21 AM
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echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:15 PM
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Hope you start feeling better soon

Quoting MommaBoop922:

Im good today mentally... just have a lot to do and plan in the next few weeks but physically Im a little rough.  My lower back is really sore esp. on my left side and cramping from overdoing it made for a tough night.  I have also had some issues with my thumbs siezing up and twisting into this wierd postion where I cant move it for a few seconds which is really scary.  I will see my doctor in a week so Im hoping nothing gets worse.  Im trying to hang in there but my body feels like its breaking down more each with with my joints :-/  My dh was concerned so he called my fahter last night and arranged for him to come help me with my dd three days a week until I give birth.  Im thankful for them both but hoping my dad doesnt make things more difficult... he can be a difficult man...lol... Okay vent over! Sorry I know its not that big of an issue but I have always been a very independent person and lately I have been feeling very vulnerable and incapable :(  

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echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:16 PM
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Good luck!

Quoting tiffluv81:

im good still waiting for tonight so I can began to baby dance and work on my rainbow. (im at work so cant start)

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echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:17 PM
Happy birthday to your dd. and big hugs

Quoting cindy82:

Meh. My daughter who is my youngest is turning 5 tomorrow. I thought I would have another one by now. But it seems like it will never happen. Still waiting till nov to get my dh retested. Ugh it seems like 3 months can't go fast enough. I feel like I have been waiting forever for an answer to iui or IVF. Either way we can't do IVF till the end of 2016. She will then be 9. Don't want them that far apart!! My oldest is 6 years older than he so he will be 15 when we start IVF. Let alone when we finally have another. It's so depressing. But I'm trying to keep busy and focus on my daughter. Thanks for reading.
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echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:17 PM
:-( hugs

Quoting lunarmamma:

This whole month has been rough, my due date is the 21st. The closer it gets the harder it gets, and I find myself very anxious thinking about it. I am not quite sure how I am going to handle that day.
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echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:18 PM
Hugs and good luck to dh on his interview

Quoting tlbmrf:

Stressed I look at the house and there is so much to do before Nellie arrives in a few months. But at the same time depressed. I went to class last night and a girl shared her due date it was November 21st. My heart sunk when I thought of that day that is the day we lost our first baby. I hate hearing that date. The worst part is I have to be happy on that day. Its dh birthday. Also scared cause mike will be going for a new job on Tuesday. This is the change we need I know cause he needs year round work but I need it to work out. Sorry its so long a lot going on today
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Yesterday at 11:36 PM
by Desiree on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:41 PM

That is exciting, hope you have fun :)  

Quoting Angela4boys:

Feeling ok!  How about you Mama?

We have a septic tank inspection today (exciting right?)  and then we are going to look at tile.


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by Desiree on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:44 PM

*Hugs*  I was annoyed by people who complained a lot before I had Isabelle now those people should feel scared complaing often around me.  Good thing I'm not around a lot of people :)  I hope it gets easier to cope with, I know its so hard controlling anything when your in so much pain from a loss.  

Quoting iSMILEheCRIES:

I want my baby back... its hard to deal with day to day stuff because it all seems so trivial compared to losing and missing my baby.  I just hear people complain about stuff and I just want to scream at them to shut up, that my pain is a million times worse. 


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by Desiree on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:47 PM

I am very independent too.  I hated asking for him and I wanted to do everything myself because well lets just face it no one every does it the way you want so it makes since to do everything yourself right? :)  But its not always good to do especially when pregnant.  Its okay to rest and ask for help.  Don't worry you can fix everything later after you had the baby and you can't stand it anymore :)  I hope everything is alright with you physically.  I know its hard but try not to overdo it.  You need rest too because definitely won't with too kids, at least for a long while.

Quoting MommaBoop922:

Im good today mentally... just have a lot to do and plan in the next few weeks but physically Im a little rough.  My lower back is really sore esp. on my left side and cramping from overdoing it made for a tough night.  I have also had some issues with my thumbs siezing up and twisting into this wierd postion where I cant move it for a few seconds which is really scary.  I will see my doctor in a week so Im hoping nothing gets worse.  Im trying to hang in there but my body feels like its breaking down more each with with my joints :-/  My dh was concerned so he called my fahter last night and arranged for him to come help me with my dd three days a week until I give birth.  Im thankful for them both but hoping my dad doesnt make things more difficult... he can be a difficult man...lol... Okay vent over! Sorry I know its not that big of an issue but I have always been a very independent person and lately I have been feeling very vulnerable and incapable :(  


blessedmommie07
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Yesterday at 11:36 PM
by Desiree on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:49 PM

Sending lots of sticky baby dust to you baby dust

Quoting tiffluv81:

im good still waiting for tonight so I can began to baby dance and work on my rainbow. (im at work so cant start)


blessedmommie07
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Yesterday at 11:36 PM
by Desiree on Oct. 12, 2012 at 1:51 PM

*Hugs*  I'm sorry.  I think it would be hard waiting for money to do the one thing you want.  You are strong.

Quoting cindy82:

Meh. My daughter who is my youngest is turning 5 tomorrow. I thought I would have another one by now. But it seems like it will never happen. Still waiting till nov to get my dh retested. Ugh it seems like 3 months can't go fast enough. I feel like I have been waiting forever for an answer to iui or IVF. Either way we can't do IVF till the end of 2016. She will then be 9. Don't want them that far apart!! My oldest is 6 years older than he so he will be 15 when we start IVF. Let alone when we finally have another. It's so depressing. But I'm trying to keep busy and focus on my daughter. Thanks for reading.


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