This time last year I was pregnant/Concerns of infertility
So this time last year i was pregnant. i have mixed emotions but i feel good. I no longer feel like God did me wrong. Mixed emotions cause its funny that my husband told me i was pregnant and i aruged with him that there was no way. But he wanted me to explain why i was throwing up all the time and why i no longer liked foods i use to love...LOL Our very small car had broke down and we went and brought a truck big enough for the addition we were expecting. You know get something more realiable and with space to buy the baby things we would need. I love our truck but at the time its a reminder and a little sadness on the reason we have the truck.
We have been together for 13 years. I was on and off of birth control for 10 years. So when I did get pregnant we were pretty shocked because we figured we couldn't have children. We were really okay with that. We enjoy our lives together and giving to our nieces and nephews. You know the joy of giving them back. Once I was pregnant we were pretty excited. Figured all the time we spent to build our careers and be stable to support a child it was just our next step and life and it was a joyful feeling. Having the miscarriage really changed everything.Not with us but with everyone around us. The miscarriage really brought me and him closer together. After being together so long you really don't think you could get any closer for form a better bond than with the man you have spent most of your life with.
I've accpeted that even though i didn't care if we had children before its okay for me to want them now. But its okay if I can't have them i have other options. My father's side of my family has fertility issues so i'm not blinded by the fact that children may not be on my path because of genetics. The fertility problems never really dawned on me until we got married but its been a concern of mine since I've had the miscarriage We discussed going to get check to see if we do in fact have issues. He's even shocked that I have not gotten pregnant since the miscarriage not the we've been trying to we having been not trying either.
The doctors try to tell you people get pregnant fairly easily after having a loss. I was wondering if anyone has went to see a fertility doctor to see if they had problems and what should I expect?