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Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support

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Posted by on Oct. 18, 2012 at 2:51 PM
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My name is amber. And I lose my baby last saturday. Its si hard
Cause I blame myself.. And I think my bf blames me for losing
The baby to.. I lost my baby by miscarriage
by on Oct. 18, 2012 at 2:51 PM
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blessedmommie07
by Desiree on Oct. 18, 2012 at 3:09 PM

I'm sorry for your loss.  You did nothing wrong just remember that.  

MommaBoop922
by on Oct. 18, 2012 at 4:43 PM

Im so sorry for your loss.  Many of us have felt that way and its all apart of the grieving but in the end there is usually nothing we can do to prevent our losses.  ((HUGS)) Try not to blame yourself 

LilysMommy813
by Heather on Oct. 18, 2012 at 5:13 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. Why do you blame yourself? I know many of us, inducing myself, feel we could have done something to not have lost a baby, but in reality it is out of our control. I hope your bf doesn't blame you, that is not fair, it is not your fault.
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iSMILEheCRIES
by Platinum Member on Oct. 18, 2012 at 5:32 PM
Hugs, you are not to blame, and I'm sure your bf knows that in his heart. Hang on tight to each other while you grieve
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Angela4boys
by Angela on Oct. 18, 2012 at 5:50 PM
I am so sorry for your loss, and what you are feeling is normal! Blame is a normal stage of grieving :( I blamed myself, hubby blamed his self too... And realistically, I know it wasn't either of our fault. Hang in there mama, we are here for you (( hugs))
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Brandonsmomm131
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 4:04 PM
It is hard as hell. When my bf told recently that it is my fault.
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shonda71942
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 4:23 PM

Big hugs to you i lost my baby boy 12/26/12 at 17wks. then i had to deliver him the worst thing ever i lost my 2nd one 7/17/12 at 9wks its not our fault that things like this happen its all GOD works he has something instored for us just remember your lil angel is always with you every where you go sorry for your loss

Brandonsmomm131
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 4:32 PM
Thanks
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