See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
So the Father does not know that I'm prego and I think I should keep it that way until after the first three months, see he already has a kiddo who's under a year and I not sure on how he would react to this. To make a long story short this was not planned I wasn't even suppose to start trying until next month I believe my exact words to him were "Nothings going to happen"....boy I spoke way too soon. I don't think I can handle him freaking out right now I've got a lot on my plate just dealing with the first three months and not losing my mind. I feel like I should tell him but at same time I don't want to deal with his feelings right now I know that sounds mean but I don't want to stress my out more then I already am. I'm torn in between telling and not telling and I don't know which way to go.