Today I met a woman who touched my heart. At work today a customer (who I've known for a while) really opened up to me and my mom (who works with me). She was asking my mom about why my brother and me are 12 years apart. Well this turned into a fertility talk. Basically due to a botched c-section she is unable to have more children. And her youngest daughter was suposed to be a twin, but the other baby died. Now she is considering invetro with a surrogent mother. I found myself telling her about Lily and it touched me when she teared up and kept saying she was so sorry. Also her older daughter (out of the mouth of babes) told me "there used to be another baby, but that baby wasn't healthy so we have to be even more thankful for my sissy" I know being thankful for our living children doesn't mean mc doesn't hurt, but that little girl reminded me not to shut down and be bitter. And me and the lady talked about how horrible that things like miscarriage and infertility are dirty little secrets. Sorry I am rambling ladies, I just really felt the warm fuzzies talking to this lady today... as much as I love you ladies, I want a living breathing person who I can look in the face and say "please understand"