A few weeks later we were out with a couple Marcus is friends with. The girl said to Marcus "I haven't seen you in forever. Catch me up on your life. Where are you working now? How many kids do you have?" She was joking but all I could think was if you only knew. You have no idea what you just asked.
This has made me wonder how many times I've made some passing comment like this that has actually been really significant or painful to the person I'm talking to.
Its been almost 2 months since my mc but II think I've actually been worse this past week or so. It seems like its been more painful and I've been more upset and angry about it. Those comments and other things have been on my mind so I just thought I would post it here.