Normal or depression

[JocelynsMama1]

Its the end of December and I miscarried back in april at only 9 weeks. I was due Nov. 20th. I havent cried daily these last 8 months however I am very upset and crying a lot lately. I guess its just because I should be sitting here with a month old baby and im not yet my sister and best friend jsut found out they  are expecting. Also 2 of my sister inlaws were pregnant at the same time and had their babies so watching them over them holidays and not having my own was really hard. Is it normal to still have break downs...I mean I know if it werent for already having my 3 year old I would just give up on life. Shes what keeps me going.

[blessedmommie07]

*hugs*  It is to normal to have a hard time even with quite a bit of time passed and you doing well.  And holidays do bring up a lot.  

[cali_angel_girl]

((hugs)) I think it's normal hun because there is no time limit on grieving.  

[JocelynsMama1]

thanks ladies

[BethFree]

I think it's normal to feel that way, I still grieve over my first loss and that was in 2010 *hugs*

[jeniemarie]

sounds normal to me. due dates are always hard and mixed with the holidays and new babies in the family youre bound to be emotional. so sorry about your loss

[JocelynsMama1]

Thanks for your in put...i guess i didnt realize how much was all happening at one time till i reread what i wrote. and what you said makes sense

Quoting jeniemarie:

sounds normal to me. due dates are always hard and mixed with the holidays and new babies in the family youre bound to be emotional. so sorry about your loss

[MommaBoop922]

Im sorry for your loss.  Its still very normal to be upset and have breakdowns.  A lot of women strugglr with them a lot through the first year since you will pass a lot of important dates and also women around you who were pregnant will be having their kids and its a lot to handle.  Just try to take it one day at a time and it will get better (HUGS)) Im sorry you had a tough day with babysitting over the holdiays.  Im sure that was really hard for you.  

[debbie303]

its sounds very normal to me, there isnt a time frame on grieving. I hope that everything goes well for u :)

[Motherwannabe12]

It sounds normal to me. I still grive my first m/c in 2004 from time to time. It gets easier as time goes by but you never really get over the loss. *HUGS*   Hang in there, Hon!

[JocelynsMama1]

thanks everyone i appreciate all the advice and I know we're all in the same boat it just gets overwhelming at times i guess