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Pregnant after 2 months since a Loss

Posted by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 9:22 AM
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Hello everyone, I am super scared and worried. I had my 3rd miscarriage Oct 23 2012. Then Nov 28th had my gallbladder removed. At Christmas we found out I was pregnant again, we were TTC.  I am 7weeks 3 days today, and sooo nervous. Every little cramp, back pain, or discharge I worry. we want to be happy but I am so guarded. I even told my hubby if this does not work, if I have to go through another loss I wont try anymore, I cant go through that hurt but so many times. Any comfort or helpful information is welcome, I would appreciate it, or to hear any of your experiences. Thank you guys so much.

by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 9:22 AM
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blessedmommie07
by Desiree-admin on Jan. 14, 2013 at 10:31 AM
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Congrats on your new pregnancy.  I understanding being nervous.  I'm pregnant again after my loss in May and I'm 7 weeks 4 days.  When are you do?  Its normal to be scared.  All you can do is hope and pray that it will be different.  Just keep thinking positively. *hugs*

Irene1923
by Tina on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:41 AM
Congrats and I hope everything goes wonderful! This is my third pregnancy with two previous losses. I am 9wks today and it is normal to be scared and nervous. Try to stay positive and celebrate every milestone. I know its impossible not to worry about the cramps and/or any pain but try not to focus on it. I drove myself crazy the first couple of wks fretting over every cramp or lack of symptom and then I realized that worrying won't change what is going to happen, so I am much calmer now and getting excited. Just keep thinking positive. It is a long road. *Hugs*
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Duenov30
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 11:43 AM
I had a mc in oct as well and found out dec 14 we were pregnant again! I'm a little over 8 weeks so I completely feel your anxiety! I hope it all goes well for you this time!
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awalter01
by Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:06 PM

I'm not sure if you have just been experiencing miscarriages or if you have had a baby.  But if it's just miscarriages, make sure they've ran some blood tests to make sure there isn't an underlying issue, something as simple as your thyroid or progesterone.  Have you ever taken progesterone?  I know how you feel.  I have had two and we are TTC for a 3rd try but I think I'll freak out and worry about every little thing.  Go in for an ultrasound, by now they should be able to see a heart beat.

DevanF
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 12:08 PM
I had a miscarriage on January 6, 2013. Do you feel that since you got pregnant again so soon it helped you heal from your losses?
BethFree
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 4:58 PM
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Ccongrats, will be keeping you in my prayers *hugs*

Mommy4Clara
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 5:01 PM

First, I am sorry for your losses. Second, congratulations on being pregnant again. I am seeing a specialist since my miscarriage was due to Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome.  He said I can go ahead and start ttc now (just had my first period after D&C).  So if I'm ok to ttc, I would think you should be as well! =)

I'm sure you are terribly frightened and stressed, but remind yourself that stress is not good for you or baby.  You might consider getting a doppler so you can hear the baby's heartbeat. 

Since you have had 3 losses, have you asked for medical testing?  If not, I would strongly suggest asking for a progesterone test asap.  Low progesterone is a leading cause of miscarriage (it's why my baby died at 12 weeks gestation). It's something that is EASILY fixed - you would just need a progesterone pill. =)

Good luck!!! <<<hugs>>>

Angela4boys
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 8:32 PM
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Congrats on your pregnancy! Praying for you both!
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amicifamily
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 8:23 AM

(Mommie4Clara)Thank you for your feedback. I will ask my doctor about that test. I know the doctor said if this pregnancy doesnt go well they would do testing to see why I continue to have losses. I am also sorry for your loss as well I know it is very hard, but wish you all the best in TTC!

amicifamily
by on Jan. 15, 2013 at 8:25 AM

(blessedmommie07)OH that is wonderful you are pregnant again I am 7weeks and 3 days today due August 30th. I am trying to be positive, but you know how you want to be happy but scared to be hurt again. Thank you so much and again CONGATS on the pregnancy I will pray it all goes well for you!!!!

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