Hey I just need someone to talk to who has had infertility issues (i.e. tried for years) and then miscarried their first pregnancy. I'm having a rough day today and am so angry. To go through everything for 4 years and then finally get pregnant just to lose him. I'm on my 3rd cycle since the miscarriage and first cycle ttc. I'm spotting today and took a pregnancy test this am and it was negative so not pregnant. I really didn't think I would get pregnant so soon but I guess it's hitting me again today how long it took to get pregnant in the first place. I just can't do that again. Anyone else out there going through this?
Quoting Mariav31:Quoting Zealand2008:
. You need to be referred to a infertility specialist so they can run a variety of test.
I am. We tried for years then finally got pregnant and it ended in a mc. We are trying again but its so frustrating and stressful.
Quoting chaoticspirit:I am. We tried for years then finally got pregnant and it ended in a mc. We are trying again but its so frustrating and stressful.
4 years and Jan
Quoting Zealand2008:
How long were you trying and when did you miscarry?
Quoting chaoticspirit:I am. We tried for years then finally got pregnant and it ended in a mc. We are trying again but its so frustrating and stressful.
I have secondary infertility and had one miscarriage, but we only tried for 7 months with that one and already had 2 healthy kiddos. I just wanted to say I'm so sorry. One of the things I was particularly thankful about in my miscarriage was that it *wasn't* my 2nd daughter who we'd tried for 2+ years for, so while I don't know the extent of your pain and frustration, I can understand that it must be extreme. Honestly, the infertility was harder for me than the miscarriage, probably because I simply felt broken. My body was not cooperating and everyone around me was getting pregnant left and right and I just couldn't. My miscarriage was deemed a fluke, so I didn't feel like that was on me.
I hope you can find some answers and have a successful pregnancy. I have PCOS and as I mentioned earlier it took years to get pregnant with our 2nd. In that time I developed an entire vitamin/pharmaceutical regimen to help correct my body's imbalances and get pregnant. It seemed to work and helped us get pregnant faster with the next ones, and we're praying it works again soon. Blessings to you! Hugs!
Quoting chaoticspirit:4 years and Jan
Quoting Zealand2008:
How long were you trying and when did you miscarry?
Quoting chaoticspirit:I am. We tried for years then finally got pregnant and it ended in a mc. We are trying again but its so frustrating and stressful.
Quoting busyizzybsmom:I have secondary infertility and had one miscarriage, but we only tried for 7 months with that one and already had 2 healthy kiddos. I just wanted to say I'm so sorry. One of the things I was particularly thankful about in my miscarriage was that it *wasn't* my 2nd daughter who we'd tried for 2+ years for, so while I don't know the extent of your pain and frustration, I can understand that it must be extreme. Honestly, the infertility was harder for me than the miscarriage, probably because I simply felt broken. My body was not cooperating and everyone around me was getting pregnant left and right and I just couldn't. My miscarriage was deemed a fluke, so I didn't feel like that was on me.
I hope you can find some answers and have a successful pregnancy. I have PCOS and as I mentioned earlier it took years to get pregnant with our 2nd. In that time I developed an entire vitamin/pharmaceutical regimen to help correct my body's imbalances and get pregnant. It seemed to work and helped us get pregnant faster with the next ones, and we're praying it works again soon. Blessings to you! Hugs!
Quoting EAzizM:
Hugs. We have been trying for two years for our first and as soon as we got those two lines, they quickly disappeared. I encourage you for not giving up hope.
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- Zealand2008
on Jan. 29, 2013 at 4:00 PM