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by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:06 AM
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Irene1923
by Tina on Feb. 1, 2013 at 5:21 PM
Huskies are beautiful...I have a Shiba Inu but she is two now, so not a puppy anymore. I bet he is quite the cutie and a ball of furry energy. :-)

Quoting smurfy88:

Thanks :) he is a Siberian husky, he just turned 8 weeks old today!



Quoting Irene1923:

Aww...what kind of puppy? My puppy was such an important factor in my healing after my losses...I had something good to focus on. Hope he/she starts sleeping at night. And best of luck when you TTC.





Quoting smurfy88:

I'm doing okay, really tired because we got a puppy and he keeps me up at night lol. Sunday will be 4 weeks since I lost my baby. I am still hurt over my loss but I'm anxious to be able to start ttc after my first cycle.
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Irene1923
by Tina on Feb. 1, 2013 at 5:26 PM
I know! Where has the time gone? Just as I get used to putting the right month on the date, its a new month. I am eagerly awaiting March so it can fly by til then.

Quoting echupko:

I really can't believe it's feb already! January flew by!
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ragitty
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 6:02 PM

Today definitely just got worse. I just got news that my mom lost her job today (that she has had since before I was even born). My dad hasn't had a job in over a year either. When my dad lost his job last year I was optimistic that he'd get a new one quickly because he was a successful, sociable engineer so I figured it was only a matter of time. After all those job opportunities that fell through for him, I can't seem to find that same hope for my mom--even though she is also a very successful engineer. I am just so broken right now.


Quoting ragitty:

I am so scared. Today sil texted to inform me that they are inducing the baby on Tuesday. I have hard a very hard time being so close to this pregnancy and, as much as I love the thought of a new nephew, I constantly find myself in tears after spending time with sil and whenever I think about the baby. Dh called me selfish last night for thinking of myself whenever anyone mentions the baby, but I know after talking with you ladies it's not being selfish--it's just part of the grieving process. I know dh is just frustrated that he can't fix everything and when that happens he gets frustrated and just tells me I need to get over it. 

Anyway, everyone is so excited about the baby getting here and I am just getting more anxious. Am I going to cry every time I see the baby, too? I hate how much pain all this brings me and I pray that it's just the pregnancy and not the baby too that is killing me. I am trying so hard to put a smile on my face (dh is the only one I have felt like I could talk to about this and now I don't think I can even do that anymore). I don't want to be a terrible aunt or a terrible person for not being as happy as everyone else is about the baby. It doesn't help that he will be born a day or so before the one-year anniversary of when I found out I was pregnant with my angel. My one-year anniversary of the loss is only a few weeks away :(



smurfy88
by Bronze Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 6:41 PM
I have never heard of that breed, ill have to google a picture. He's just starting to actually get playful, ill post a picture below this reply *im mobile*

Quoting Irene1923:

Huskies are beautiful...I have a Shiba Inu but she is two now, so not a puppy anymore. I bet he is quite the cutie and a ball of furry energy. :-)



Quoting smurfy88:

Thanks :) he is a Siberian husky, he just turned 8 weeks old today!





Quoting Irene1923:

Aww...what kind of puppy? My puppy was such an important factor in my healing after my losses...I had something good to focus on. Hope he/she starts sleeping at night. And best of luck when you TTC.







Quoting smurfy88:

I'm doing okay, really tired because we got a puppy and he keeps me up at night lol. Sunday will be 4 weeks since I lost my baby. I am still hurt over my loss but I'm anxious to be able to start ttc after my first cycle.
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Ladybugmama86
by Silver Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 7:32 PM

 I want to test but know its going ot be a bfn. I am trying to force myself to wait until the 7th when I know af is going to show up. But I just want to see that positive sooooooo flippin bad its not even funny.

Hatin life right now.

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Ladybugmama86
by Silver Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 7:33 PM
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 Lol, arent puppies fun?! Good luck ttc!! Hope it is a short journey for you.

Quoting smurfy88:

I'm doing okay, really tired because we got a puppy and he keeps me up at night lol. Sunday will be 4 weeks since I lost my baby. I am still hurt over my loss but I'm anxious to be able to start ttc after my first cycle.

 

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Ladybugmama86
by Silver Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 7:38 PM

 MY sister had a baby 1 week before I had Ryder. I met my new neice the day of Ryders funeral I thought it was going ot be very hard and actually avoided her until after the funeral but then I looked at that sweet baby and I just had to hold her. So my sister handed her to me and to feel a baby in my arms was just right. Made me realize what I was missing out with Ryder even more, but it was comforting and healing at the same time. You will know what to do when you get there and if peopel cant understand if you need to cry after seeing the baby then that is their problem, not yours.

My husband still will not hold another baby. But there is a little boy I watch sometimes that is 4 months older then Ryder and is so much like I imagained he would be like and my husband loves that little boy to peices.

Quoting ragitty:

I am so scared. Today sil texted to inform me that they are inducing the baby on Tuesday. I have hard a very hard time being so close to this pregnancy and, as much as I love the thought of a new nephew, I constantly find myself in tears after spending time with sil and whenever I think about the baby. Dh called me selfish last night for thinking of myself whenever anyone mentions the baby, but I know after talking with you ladies it's not being selfish--it's just part of the grieving process. I know dh is just frustrated that he can't fix everything and when that happens he gets frustrated and just tells me I need to get over it. 

Anyway, everyone is so excited about the baby getting here and I am just getting more anxious. Am I going to cry every time I see the baby, too? I hate how much pain all this brings me and I pray that it's just the pregnancy and not the baby too that is killing me. I am trying so hard to put a smile on my face (dh is the only one I have felt like I could talk to about this and now I don't think I can even do that anymore). I don't want to be a terrible aunt or a terrible person for not being as happy as everyone else is about the baby. It doesn't help that he will be born a day or so before the one-year anniversary of when I found out I was pregnant with my angel. My one-year anniversary of the loss is only a few weeks away :(

 

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smurfy88
by Bronze Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 7:46 PM

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ragitty
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 7:54 PM

I am hoping it brings more peace than sorrow. I don't think anyone else will understand if I cry because not everyone knows about my loss and those thst do haven't said a single thing about it since the day it happened and they probable forgot all about it


Quoting Ladybugmama86:

 MY sister had a baby 1 week before I had Ryder. I met my new neice the day of Ryders funeral I thought it was going ot be very hard and actually avoided her until after the funeral but then I looked at that sweet baby and I just had to hold her. So my sister handed her to me and to feel a baby in my arms was just right. Made me realize what I was missing out with Ryder even more, but it was comforting and healing at the same time. You will know what to do when you get there and if peopel cant understand if you need to cry after seeing the baby then that is their problem, not yours.

My husband still will not hold another baby. But there is a little boy I watch sometimes that is 4 months older then Ryder and is so much like I imagained he would be like and my husband loves that little boy to peices.

Quoting ragitty:

I am so scared. Today sil texted to inform me that they are inducing the baby on Tuesday. I have hard a very hard time being so close to this pregnancy and, as much as I love the thought of a new nephew, I constantly find myself in tears after spending time with sil and whenever I think about the baby. Dh called me selfish last night for thinking of myself whenever anyone mentions the baby, but I know after talking with you ladies it's not being selfish--it's just part of the grieving process. I know dh is just frustrated that he can't fix everything and when that happens he gets frustrated and just tells me I need to get over it. 

Anyway, everyone is so excited about the baby getting here and I am just getting more anxious. Am I going to cry every time I see the baby, too? I hate how much pain all this brings me and I pray that it's just the pregnancy and not the baby too that is killing me. I am trying so hard to put a smile on my face (dh is the only one I have felt like I could talk to about this and now I don't think I can even do that anymore). I don't want to be a terrible aunt or a terrible person for not being as happy as everyone else is about the baby. It doesn't help that he will be born a day or so before the one-year anniversary of when I found out I was pregnant with my angel. My one-year anniversary of the loss is only a few weeks away :(

 



echupko
by Group Mod-Elizabeth on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:11 PM
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Puppies are work!!! Good luck and good luck ttc!

Quoting smurfy88:

I'm doing okay, really tired because we got a puppy and he keeps me up at night lol. Sunday will be 4 weeks since I lost my baby. I am still hurt over my loss but I'm anxious to be able to start ttc after my first cycle.
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