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I've told her twice!

Posted by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:01 PM
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One of my co-workers came up to me, rubbed my belly and said, "How's the baby?"  I've told her twice about my miscarriage!  I didn't cry, but I wanted to.

by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:01 PM
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Herlache
by Jessie on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:22 PM
I'm so sorry does it not sink in or is she that mean
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blessedmommie07
by Desiree on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:28 PM

*hugs* I'm sorry for her doing that.  I would just politely look at her and hold restrant and tell her "I already told you twice I lost my baby.  If you touch my stomach again it won't be pretty.  Please have some respect."  I hope she stops cause that is cruel.

dizziestdream
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:29 PM

 She said she totally forgot. This makes the third time I've told her!


Quoting Herlache:

I'm so sorry does it not sink in or is she that mean


 

Herlache
by Jessie on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:33 PM
Sounds fishy to me is she normally forgetful?
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Mayruchia
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 2:38 PM

What a dumb ass sorry... but what the heck can the idiot get it. I am sorry she just seems that something like that is being done unporpose. People like that just make me so mad.  Next time she comes close to you just kick her. ok. maybe you can just go around her or something. augh the nerve of some people. I am sorry honey hope you feel better soon.

gingerprincess
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 2:42 PM

I don't have half the self control you have, I'd have hit her.

dizziestdream
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 3:37 PM

 Her first language is Spanish, but I know she at least understood the second time because she offered her condolences.  I don't think she's forgetful.


Quoting Herlache:

Sounds fishy to me is she normally forgetful?


 

dizziestdream
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 3:38 PM

She can be. I'm usually a pretty chill person, but it took a lot not to cry.


Quoting Mayruchia:

What a dumb ass sorry... but what the heck can the idiot get it. I am sorry she just seems that something like that is being done unporpose. People like that just make me so mad.  Next time she comes close to you just kick her. ok. maybe you can just go around her or something. augh the nerve of some people. I am sorry honey hope you feel better soon.


 

dizziestdream
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 3:39 PM

 I was just really shocked and tried not to cry.


Quoting gingerprincess:

I don't have half the self control you have, I'd have hit her.


 

gingerprincess
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 3:54 PM


I can imagine. Right after my loss a "friend" came rushing to tell me she was pregnant, and she knew about the loss.

Quoting dizziestdream:

 I was just really shocked and tried not to cry.


Quoting gingerprincess:

I don't have half the self control you have, I'd have hit her.





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