Our daughter still does not have a headstone. right now we mark her grave with things for the holidays like halloween/fall i did a little pumpkin that said Fall Blessings and a girl scarecrow, Christmas i did a tree and my mom put a sign in the ground that said Santa Stop Here. i also buy flowers and replace them all the time. but now we have the money and im looking at headstones. im pretty iffy on ordering one online. anyone have a site they used? im in Wichita, Ks. i just dont want to pick out a headstone (i really havent looked at any. to painful still) and go through all that, pay for it, only to be jipped and not have my daughter get it. i would be crushed and hurt and so pissed!! i guess its just a fear.