New To The Group - 2nd Miscarriage

[mariesmith123]

I am new to this website and I came here hoping I could find a little comfort.

I had my 1st miscarriage in February of last year at  8 weeks and I just had my 2nd miscarriage on Monday at 8 weeks. Although I say 8 weeks, my doctor believes each baby quit developing in earlier weeks, since my miscarriages happened rather quickly and didn't hurt that bad, they both just happened to have occurred at 8 weeks.

I know so many people having babies in their lives right now and although I'm happy for them, I can't help but feel jealous and sad because of how bad my husband and I want it. My mom is always telling me to count my blessings and I am very thankful for so many things in my life but whenever I try to reflect on my blessings, a minute will pass by and I'll end up saying "whatever I still want a baby" - part of me feels selfish for feeling this way.  My husband and I have always wanted to have a lot of kids, now we are just praying to at least get one.

But I do know that there are so many women I have read about who have had numerous miscarriages and finally received their blessing -- and these women are the one thing that have given me a lot of hope.

My husband and I are going to see a specialist on February 22, hopefully their will be a silver lining in our future because the wait is horrible.

[Angela4boys]

I am so sorry for your losses :(  All of your feelings are very normal Hun. 

I just want to encourage you to fight the good fight Hun, a baby is worth fighting for!  (((hugs)))

[Herlache]

I'm sorry for your losses don't give up you will have your rainbow baby. You joined a great group of ladies they give me lots of support every day. Don't be afraid to ask anything here nothing is off limits! ((hugs))

[blessedmommie07]

I'm sorry for your losses.

[hgarcia8411]

Im sorry hun! I feel your pain...i just miscarried this week too. I think this is the best place to be. It has already helped me a lil.. Just keep trying and never give up hope because with him all things are possible!

[dawny36]

I am so sorry for your losses.  I'm glad you're not giving up hope, it is very much possible to have a baby after 2 m/c.  Waiting is horrible but hang in there.

[mommyofnoah208]

So sorry for your losses. These feelings are very normal, grieving is difficult. Thinking of you, welcome to the group and I hope you find support here

[cali_angel_girl]

((hugs)) I am so sorry for your losses hun.  And I hope the specilist can give you some answers so that you can get your rainbow baby soon.