Third Miscarriage and it is killing me
Monday I had a D&C performed after going to my first ob visit with a new dr on 1/31/13. I did not like my first practice because my progesterone dropped and they did nothing. I told them I needed suppositories or cream. There was a heartbeat at 6 weeks and it was amazing because my first two pregnancies there were no heartbeats on my first visit. I know it is early and I am waiting to hear back from the Pathologist report but not a day goes by where I do not cry or get depressed. I keep picturing the ultrasound with no heartbeat and I relive the pain I felt. My husband and I would like to know why this keeps happening and try one more time. My husband is very supportive but also does not want to see me like this. I don't show my emotions while around people but he can tell it kills me. What are things that helped you deal with the pain?
I have had six miscarriages and I have been so scared to try again. I always found it helpful to talk to my husband about how I was feeling. Listening to songs about loss do help a lot and helps you if you want to just cry. Give yourself that cry session to let out all your emotions. Thinking of you and hope things get better
((hugs)) I am sorry for your losses hun. What helped me deal with the pain the most was just talking about my loss and also just doing stuff to keep my mind off it.
I am so sorry . I have no clue why it happens . I had my 3rd loss in Dec and it just stinks .
Time. Time is pretty much all that has helped ease or numb the pain. And also the stubbornness that I want another baby. I've lost two pregnancies in a row, 16 weeks and 9 weeks. We want to get the prize, not defeat. ((((hugs)))) I'm so sorry for your losses Hun :(
I would get a new doctor if you haven't already and start having them run tests. Hopefully they can figure out how to help you.
How are you today? May 19
- dfaley1066
on Feb. 6, 2013 at 7:52 PM