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Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support

Devestated

Posted by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:49 AM
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Hi my name is Jenny. I'm 30 yrs old and happily married with a beautiful little girl who just turned 1 on Valentines day. I was delighted to find out on Christmas day we were expecting again. Everything seemed fine. I had experienced some spotting early on but everything checked out okay. On Feb 9th I was experiencing severe lower back pain and the next evening..my water broke as I was lying on the couch with my daughter. As a nurse, I knew what was to come and it was awful! The most traumatic event I had ever suffered through. I was 11 weeks 5 days. I'm devestated and would like to try again but not sure I want to risk having to endure another miscarriage. I thought joining this forum would help me along in my grief process so I'm relieved to know after reading some of your posts..that I'm not alone.
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Herlache
by Jessie on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:53 AM
I'm sorry for your loss! Welcome unfortunately we have to meet like this but you have joined a great group of ladies that give you alot of support! ((hugs))
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Jones3536
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:54 AM

Sorry for your loss!!

Anliena
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 11:58 AM

I'm very sorry for your loss :(  ((Hugs))

lunarmamma
by on Feb. 18, 2013 at 12:19 PM
The circumstances that bring is all together are horrible, but this is the best group of ladies. We support each other.
I lost my daughter at 10 1/2 weeks and it was s very traumatic experience that landed the in the er by ambulance and a hospital stay. It will be a year next month on the 30th. I am so very sorry for your loss
(((Hugs)))
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Angela4boys
by Angela on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:16 PM
I am so glad you found this group, it has helped me so much! I am so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you are feeling right now. I went through the same feeling myself after my losses. But relatively shortly after I felt like I was willing to take the risk of another loss to have a baby again. Give yourself a little time, right now the wounds are still open and really raw...but the wounds close up overtime, though the scars remain. (((Big hugs))) to you!
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blessedmommie07
by Desiree on Feb. 18, 2013 at 1:20 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. This is a great group of women.
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EAzizM
by Erica on Feb. 18, 2013 at 6:05 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs.
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Namaste09
by Samantha on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:06 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs.
The women in here are a great support feel free to ask anything an vent whenever.
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3xBabylove
by Heather on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:24 PM
Sorry for your loss... The women here are amazing! I lost my baby Nov 26, thought I was 10 weeks but the baby stopped growing at 6.5 ... I'm still petrified of getting pregnant and loosing another baby...
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Mommy4Clara
by Bronze Member on Feb. 18, 2013 at 10:30 PM

Hello Jenny.

You are not alone - we are all here to support you.

I was 12 weeks when I lost my baby back in November, but I had a missed miscarriage; my body wouldn't go into "labor" so I had to have a D&C. It's scary to think about trying again, but I still want to. Give yourself time to heal.

Hugs to you!

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