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the last place i want to be...

Posted by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 2:39 PM
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Sitting in the woman's clinic again.. waiting for my follow up. It hurts so much seeing these happily pregnant woman. I'm just ready to go home.
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felixi
by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 2:42 PM
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I totally understand. I wish they had a separate waiting room...I remember when we had our third ultrasound and the baby's heart had stopped beating. I openly wept onto a nearby nurse, which made nearby mommies squirm...I think it's uncomfortable for everyone involved. :-( Hang in there

chicaespana2003
by Steph on Apr. 5, 2013 at 2:48 PM
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I hear ya. I wish they would make appointments special to avoid situations like this, but then it might not be fair to the expectant mothers.

Hoping for a quick wait! (hugs)

OkWolfe
by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 2:53 PM
I wish we were in a different area too.


Quoting felixi:

I totally understand. I wish they had a separate waiting room...I remember when we had our third ultrasound and the baby's heart had stopped beating. I openly wept onto a nearby nurse, which made nearby mommies squirm...I think it's uncomfortable for everyone involved. :-( Hang in there


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Herlache
by Jessie on Apr. 5, 2013 at 3:26 PM
I'm sorry I think we all go through that. I do wish they could have a different waiting room or even put us back in a room so it's easier for us.
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momofcrazypants
by Leslie on Apr. 5, 2013 at 3:27 PM

I remember that appt myself. Very hard. I'm so sorry. (hugs)

Happy_Mcboobs
by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 5:16 PM

It was so hard. :( My OB asked me to come in first thing--they were going to have me be the first one in but I couldnt' make it in that early because of my older child's school schedule. I went in as early as possible and it ended up being a very crowded day so the wait was long--usually it's not--but that day, it took forever and it was horrible waiting and watching... :(

mdawn028
by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 6:43 PM
I know it was tough for me looking at all the happy glowing pregnant women's faces took all I had to hold my emotions in and not let them see me cry when I lost my baby. It was tough I just wanted to bolt but I waited with my hubby to be called back to a room having to hear all the mothers there boast about their symptoms and how healthy their babies were and how good the pregnancy was going along how smoothly. I wanted to scream and cry at the same time. I am sorry for your loss. We are all here for u all of us moms have been through a loss or even losses. We all are here to support each other. I am sorry for your loss. Hugs. Sincerely a mom who cares Dawna
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Namaste09
by Samantha on Apr. 5, 2013 at 7:36 PM

I hear you :(    ((Hugs)) 

iSMILEheCRIES
by Platinum Member on Apr. 5, 2013 at 9:10 PM
Hugs. There was a crying newborn at mine too-talk about bad to worse
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Bailee2b
by on Apr. 5, 2013 at 11:25 PM

My feelings were just the same as yours.  It was SO difficult to be there.  I wanted to shake the pregnant ladies and tell them to be thankful (luckily I controlled myself).

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