See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
My sister had to rub it in my face that 2 year's ago I lost my daughter by having her to early, and she continued on being pregnant and had her daughter.
Then her son's birthday was the other day and I miscarried last year while rushing down to the state she's in to be by her side becuase things wern't looking well for her, she almost bled to death. So I miscarried the day he was born a year ago.
She brought all that up and said that I'm never to have a child of my own, and the only reason i spend so much time with my niece's and nephews is because they are the closest I'm to have as my children. And that she doesn't want me around her kids anymore because her daughter spoke to me first. Her daughter is 2 and never speaks to anyone so I thought she would be happy.
Witch she is wrong because I have Destiny my step daughter. And I have yet to except the fact that I can't have kids. I spend time with my nieces and nephews becuase i love being their aunt and I'm to leave them and I want to know that they know I love them. I'm a military wife and we have orders to leave this close state in january.
She pissed me off though and makes me think that I shouldn't trust any of my family. How could she say that stuff to me? Her herself should know how hard things are, she has givin birth 3 times to early and the babies didnt live and she has had 4 other miscarriages between them all.