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How are you feeling today? How can we support you?
by on Jun. 18, 2013 at 7:36 AM
Replies (11-20):
Angela4boys
by Angela on Jun. 18, 2013 at 10:48 AM

That is horrible.  I wouldn't have been able to leave her there :(  I'm sorry you had to (((hugs)))

Quoting lost2013:

Well, last night I saw that my DD may have a yeast infection I think it from my sister-in-law who doesn't change her enough during the day while I am at work because I go there for lunch everyday and sometimes her diaper is soaking wet, so luckily my mom is taking her to the doctor for me since I have to work and she only works half days right now.  But what really upset me today was I dropped her off at my SIL and BIL's house and they were downstairs on the main floor then both went upstairs they know I have to go to work I waited until the last possible minute I could with not being late to work and they never came down I even said loudly to my DD mommy has to go to work now, so I had to close the front door as I left because their 19 month old and my DD were all alone in the living room.  When I left my DD was screaming (crying) and there was no one there to comfort her because they were upstairs.  I cried all the way to work which I have not done in a while called my DH cause I was so upset and he reminded me "your mom will be watching her for 5 weeks starting Monday (since she is on Summer break) then she is going to a new sitter the end of July.  It made me not feel better why the heck did they both have to go upstairs and leave me with the two kids knowing I had to go to work and I had to leave them alone.  Who knows how long they were alone for after I left?!  Sorry needed to vent.  My SIL and BIL do not know we found another sitter my SIL is pregnant with her second and she has changed a lot on how she takes care of my daughter that has upset my DD and me.  Plus, it is hard to know she got pregnant exactly one month after I lost my baby and at least I won't have to see her getting bigger and bigger everyday.

Rough Day and it is only 10:00 AM (EST)



Angela4boys
by Angela on Jun. 18, 2013 at 10:50 AM
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That actually sounds like a good plan!

Quoting blessedmommie07:

Tired.  Trying to find motivation to clean and I can't.  Might go back to bed lol


momofcrazypants
by Leslie on Jun. 18, 2013 at 10:51 AM

They will both be in my thoughts today! How's your momma doing? Is she holding up ok?


Quoting Angela4boys:

I'm feeling good :) My step father is having a kidney transplant, so if anyone would like to pray for John and his Donor Keith today, that would be great :)



momofcrazypants
by Leslie on Jun. 18, 2013 at 10:53 AM
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I second going back to bed. It's raining here again and that's making it worse. :)


Quoting blessedmommie07:

Tired.  Trying to find motivation to clean and I can't.  Might go back to bed lol



momofcrazypants
by Leslie on Jun. 18, 2013 at 10:56 AM

I'm so sorry. That sounds so poopy. :( 

At least your mom will be with your DD soon and then she'll be going to a new sitter. Just try to hang in there if you can, I know it's got to be hard. I can't imagine.

How's the DD doing today with the infection? What did the doctor say?

My sister got pregnant pretty fast after my loss and she has issues with taking care of her kids as well. It's difficult to process and even more difficult to watch.


Quoting lost2013:

Well, last night I saw that my DD may have a yeast infection I think it from my sister-in-law who doesn't change her enough during the day while I am at work because I go there for lunch everyday and sometimes her diaper is soaking wet, so luckily my mom is taking her to the doctor for me since I have to work and she only works half days right now.  But what really upset me today was I dropped her off at my SIL and BIL's house and they were downstairs on the main floor then both went upstairs they know I have to go to work I waited until the last possible minute I could with not being late to work and they never came down I even said loudly to my DD mommy has to go to work now, so I had to close the front door as I left because their 19 month old and my DD were all alone in the living room.  When I left my DD was screaming (crying) and there was no one there to comfort her because they were upstairs.  I cried all the way to work which I have not done in a while called my DH cause I was so upset and he reminded me "your mom will be watching her for 5 weeks starting Monday (since she is on Summer break) then she is going to a new sitter the end of July.  It made me not feel better why the heck did they both have to go upstairs and leave me with the two kids knowing I had to go to work and I had to leave them alone.  Who knows how long they were alone for after I left?!  Sorry needed to vent.  My SIL and BIL do not know we found another sitter my SIL is pregnant with her second and she has changed a lot on how she takes care of my daughter that has upset my DD and me.  Plus, it is hard to know she got pregnant exactly one month after I lost my baby and at least I won't have to see her getting bigger and bigger everyday.

Rough Day and it is only 10:00 AM (EST)




momofcrazypants
by Leslie on Jun. 18, 2013 at 10:58 AM

Well it's raining here again. I know, I know....breaking news: it's raining. Lol.  Well other than that, I guess we're just going to take it easy today. All major chores were done yesterday so all that's left is a bit of this and a bit of that...

chicaespana2003
by Steph on Jun. 18, 2013 at 11:04 AM


I'm sorry that you feel so torn, I know that hurts- motherly instincs. I hope that it isn't an infection, and that it is something mild. I'm glad your mom can take her to the dr's for you.

(hugs)

Quoting lost2013:

Well, last night I saw that my DD may have a yeast infection I think it from my sister-in-law who doesn't change her enough during the day while I am at work because I go there for lunch everyday and sometimes her diaper is soaking wet, so luckily my mom is taking her to the doctor for me since I have to work and she only works half days right now.  But what really upset me today was I dropped her off at my SIL and BIL's house and they were downstairs on the main floor then both went upstairs they know I have to go to work I waited until the last possible minute I could with not being late to work and they never came down I even said loudly to my DD mommy has to go to work now, so I had to close the front door as I left because their 19 month old and my DD were all alone in the living room.  When I left my DD was screaming (crying) and there was no one there to comfort her because they were upstairs.  I cried all the way to work which I have not done in a while called my DH cause I was so upset and he reminded me "your mom will be watching her for 5 weeks starting Monday (since she is on Summer break) then she is going to a new sitter the end of July.  It made me not feel better why the heck did they both have to go upstairs and leave me with the two kids knowing I had to go to work and I had to leave them alone.  Who knows how long they were alone for after I left?!  Sorry needed to vent.  My SIL and BIL do not know we found another sitter my SIL is pregnant with her second and she has changed a lot on how she takes care of my daughter that has upset my DD and me.  Plus, it is hard to know she got pregnant exactly one month after I lost my baby and at least I won't have to see her getting bigger and bigger everyday.

Rough Day and it is only 10:00 AM (EST)




chicaespana2003
by Steph on Jun. 18, 2013 at 11:05 AM

Ugh, rain- I know the feeling. I hope it doesn't last all day for you.


Quoting momofcrazypants:

Well it's raining here again. I know, I know....breaking news: it's raining. Lol.  Well other than that, I guess we're just going to take it easy today. All major chores were done yesterday so all that's left is a bit of this and a bit of that...



momofcrazypants
by Leslie on Jun. 18, 2013 at 11:12 AM


At this rate, it probably will. It's been like this all morning already. I know, I'm just grumping to grump. I should be happy, rain is good for my plants, etc, etc..... :)

Quoting chicaespana2003:

Ugh, rain- I know the feeling. I hope it doesn't last all day for you.


Quoting momofcrazypants:

Well it's raining here again. I know, I know....breaking news: it's raining. Lol.  Well other than that, I guess we're just going to take it easy today. All major chores were done yesterday so all that's left is a bit of this and a bit of that...





Angela4boys
by Angela on Jun. 18, 2013 at 11:18 AM

I actually haven't spoken to her today...I'm not sure what time the surgery is due to start, and there is a 3 hour time difference..but it is expected to last about 6 hours.  I'm sure she'll be a wreck...I would be I'm sure.


Quoting momofcrazypants:

They will both be in my thoughts today! How's your momma doing? Is she holding up ok?


Quoting Angela4boys:

I'm feeling good :) My step father is having a kidney transplant, so if anyone would like to pray for John and his Donor Keith today, that would be great :)




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