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I don't get it.

Posted by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 6:46 PM
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So I have had several miscarriages the most recent was in March. I went through my grief and I have not thought about it in awhile until recently... Now it seems like everywhere I look everyone is pregnant and it is just making me angry,I know that it's normal but I have never felt this way after my miscarriages and I am driving myself crazy. I don't know what to do...Just let it pass? I'm never rude or anything mind you it's more an internal response,like my stomach drops. I hope someone else has been through this because I feel like a loon.

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Mommytoaangel
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 6:48 PM
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Ur no loon i felt like this after my boys passed away an my neighber was still prego with her dd an she is now almost 36wks along hugs
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mdawn028
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 6:53 PM
I'm sorry for your losses hon. I'm happy for my friends that are pregnant it would just be nice if it was finallu me again.I lost my baby at 8 weeks.July 28,2012. March 5,2013 my baby would have been due.I hope this month or next month I will.be pregnant soon.You may still be grieving your loss hon.hugs
Dawna


Quoting MamaBear2cubs:

So I have had several miscarriages the most recent was in March. I went through my grief and I have not thought about it in awhile until recently... Now it seems like everywhere I look everyone is pregnant and it is just making me angry,I know that it's normal but I have never felt this way after my miscarriages and I am driving myself crazy. I don't know what to do...Just let it pass? I'm never rude or anything mind you it's more an internal response,like my stomach drops. I hope someone else has been through this because I feel like a loon.


MamaBear2cubs
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 7:31 PM

Thanks ladies. I guess it could be me just grieving and going through the motions. It is just not something I expected to be feeling.

Bailee2b
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 9:04 PM

I had my m/c in March and I still feel that way...I would love some coping tips.  It makes me feel like a horrible person.

mommyofnoah208
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 9:23 PM
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Thinking of you
Angela4boys
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 7:56 AM
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I think you probably need to talk about it more, so as not to internalize your feelings.  I am sorry you are going through this.  We're here if you need to talk to someone.  I don't know how I would have gotten through my losses without this group.

MamaBear2cubs
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 8:43 AM

It's nice to hear that I'm not the only one. 


Quoting Bailee2b:

I had my m/c in March and I still feel that way...I would love some coping tips.  It makes me feel like a horrible person.


 

Cal2006
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:17 AM

 Most of us have been there. I don't have an answer for you. I feel the same way.

dj_kern
by Bronze Member on Jul. 17, 2013 at 11:00 AM

With my first mc i was like this for a very long time, and that was in August of 12 that i lost the first one.  With my most recent one i seem to handle it better. 

We all handle things differently and i think each loss is different. 

So sorry you had to endure this and i pray that you have peace.

blessedmommie07
by Desiree-admin on Jul. 18, 2013 at 11:49 PM

*hugs*  Sometimes grief just sneaks up on you at any time.  It should pass in time. 

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