Today has been rough...
Got home last night to find a letter from my insurance saying they were denying my claim from my surgery two months ago when I lost our baby at 20 weeks.... here it is the worst possible moment of my life and now I have this huge bill.
I called the insurance today. They are saying that my plan doesn't cover what they consider an abortion.... I did not have an abortion, definatly not a voluntary one, I WANTED this baby; I had a cerclage removed because I developed a serious infection that ruptured the membranes. My MD sent them a letter explainging the extenuating circumstances and that it was a life saving (my life) proceedure and that my baby was still born... they denied anyway.... so freaken mad, guess I was supposed to die. I plan on appealing and had my MD send me my medical records and a copy of the letter they sent (it was a very good letter, so I'm not sure what I can say to convence them to pay).
So, I finally looked thru my records and I now know that we had a little girl... I now I cannot stop crying thinking about what should have been... maybe I was wrong, I thought my not knowing was hard, but I think this knowing is way worse, it is like I lost her all over again
on Sep. 18, 2013 at 8:00 PM