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Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support

Fertility specialist

Posted by on Nov. 17, 2013 at 4:55 PM
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After having my third loss in July I just felt completely done with trying to have a child. All my family and friends were pushing me to see a specialist and I just didn't care. This past year has sucked completely with having 3 losses and loosing 2 gmas and 1 gpa. Plus my dog who i had for 13 years. I just wanted to take a breather. Earlier this month I started to feel better. I know I still want to wait a little long to try but figured I needed to still do the testing and everything to be prepared for when I am ready. So far they have not found anything wrong but ill get lots more information at my next appt on dec 5th. I'm nervous as can be. So stressful. Sometimes I wish they can just find something already so we can fix it. I don't want to b like other women where nothing is found and they just keep trying and loosing. It's just to heart breaking
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blessedmommie07
by Desiree on Nov. 17, 2013 at 5:06 PM
*hugs* I hope they can figure it out so you can get a rainbow.
Angela4boys
by Angela on Nov. 17, 2013 at 6:53 PM
Ugh, I'm sorry Hun, that's so frustrating. Do you have any living children? I also had three losses in a short span of 8 months...but I had 5 children prior, so they sort of acted like i was fine...and after the last loss, I wasn't interested in ttc anymore anyways.

I hope they find something so you can have an answer...not knowing is hard!
caitipenn
by Member on Nov. 18, 2013 at 12:30 AM
No. We do not have any living children. Every pregnancy just got shorter and shorter my first was 10 wks then 7wks then 6weeks. No testing on the babies were ever done either


Quoting Angela4boys:

Ugh, I'm sorry Hun, that's so frustrating. Do you have any living children? I also had three losses in a short span of 8 months...but I had 5 children prior, so they sort of acted like i was fine...and after the last loss, I wasn't interested in ttc anymore anyways.



I hope they find something so you can have an answer...not knowing is hard!

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Angela4boys
by Angela on Nov. 18, 2013 at 7:08 AM

Its interesting you mention shorter and shorter, my losses were at 16 weeks, 9 weeks, and 4 weeks.  We had testing on the second loss, and they didn't find anything abnormal. 

Quoting caitipenn:

No. We do not have any living children. Every pregnancy just got shorter and shorter my first was 10 wks then 7wks then 6weeks. No testing on the babies were ever done either


Quoting Angela4boys:

Ugh, I'm sorry Hun, that's so frustrating. Do you have any living children? I also had three losses in a short span of 8 months...but I had 5 children prior, so they sort of acted like i was fine...and after the last loss, I wasn't interested in ttc anymore anyways.



I hope they find something so you can have an answer...not knowing is hard!


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